The Gentlemen's Standard

Better Luck Next Time

2012-01-26T21:52:00.005-05:00

Well, my bid to secure the senior procurement specialist position at my job has come to an unfortunate, disappointing end. They have decided to go in another direction to fill the opening. Well, I have heard that before. Nevertheless, my job believes in promoting from within and shaping career paths. Therefore, I was granted the opportunity to hear feedback from my interview, and I was presented with guidance to better myself for future opportunities. So, what do I need to do? Well, management would like for me to demonstrate more leadership skills in the workplace. My work ethic is perfectly fine, but they would like to see if I can effectively lead and offer guidance to new hires here in the office. They would also like for me to take the lead over an office committee or group if it arises in the future. All in all, I am pleased with my effort. I certainly have the tools to perform the job well. Now, I just have to prove that I can effectively utilize those tools as a leader. My objective clear. And I am ready for the challenge!

UPTOWN Gentleman: Knock Your Socks Off

2012-01-25T19:31:00.004-05:00

All things considered, there are but a few select elements on a gentleman’s person that are hidden away from the public eye. His undershirt. His underwear. His socks. Now, under normal circumstances, the undershirt and underwear are totally obscured from view, or at least they should be. A gentleman’s socks, well, are definitely subject to being unexpectedly fully-exposed. Trust this: Eventually, you will visit a household that mandates the removal of your shoes. Don’t be the guy with the socks that are dingy, full of holes, or — God forbid — both. And yes, we have discussed socks recently, but perhaps the point requires further conversation. Spring is ahead and stores are already stocking their inventory with bright, vibrant offerings. This is what you should be wearing in the months ahead.

Check out the remainder of my article over at UPTOWN Magazine HERE. Again, I just want to thank everyone for checking in and reading my articles. I have been writing for UPTOWN for nearly a year now. Your support is truly appreciated. Thank you again.

Jack Black Dry Erase Ultra-Calming Face Cream

2012-01-23T00:59:00.014-05:00

Jack Black Dry Erase Ultra-Calming Face Cream

For this gentleman, winter weather can be brutally unforgiving on the skin. Unfortunately, I have been blessed with the skin condition eczema. Thus, low humidity and cold temperatures only work to exacerbate the condition. Thankfully, my skin only becomes irritated on the lower extremities, but my face still suffers from bothersome dryness. Well, and right on time, I was able to receive a sample of a new moisturizer offered by Jack Black. Their new Dry Erase Ultra-Calming Face Cream is just what is needed during these winter months. I am not ashamed to admit, but it was not long ago that I used regular lotion for my body and face.

However, the face can be sensitive, so I decided to dive into the world of moisturizers. Some moisturizers can be watery with an overpowering scent. The Jack Black offering has a light, clean scent with a nice creamy texture that readily absorbs into the skin. Some products require multiple applications, but this moisturizer only required maybe a nickel sized amount to do the job. It restores flexibility to my skin, and as an added bonus: it softens my beard. Take note, it is slightly expensive, but a little does travel a long way. So, resist the urge of squeezing ridiculous amounts into your palm. This is definitely a moisturizer that I will be adding to my regular grooming regimen. Check it out if you can.

Hydrate: NEW Dry Erase Ultra-Calming Face Cream

A powerful, non-greasy moisturizer, the Dry Erase Ultra-Calming Face Cream fights fine lines, flakiness and tightness, leaving skin deeply hydrated, visibly firmer and radiant. The unique formula mimics the structure of skin lipids, trapping in moisture and aiding in the repair and replenishment of the skin’s natural protective barrier. Fortified with skin comforters from nature and science, it calms irritated skin and helps reduce redness.

Price: $38.00 (2.5 oz)

Gent Hints- The Garment Drying Rack

2012-01-21T13:27:00.005-05:00

There are some items in a gentleman's wardrobe that should never see the inside of a Whirlpool clothes dryer. Never. An extra large magically transforms into an extra medium. Socks mysteriously disappear as if it ventured into the Bermuda Triangle. Or, socks emerge battered and misshapen after tossing around for 30 minutes in extreme heat. Do yourself a favor and invest in a quality garment rack. Yes, THAT garment rack, the one you see your lady hanging her brassieres and other delicate undergarments from. She has already figured out certain clothing should steer clear of the clothes dryer.

I use the garment rack to primarily hang my socks to dry. Because, and let us really think about this, a gentleman's socks does not require the same drying time as heavier garments. Socks are lightweight. Yet, most men toss the entire laundry load in, and then leave their socks to be baked alive. Garment racks are really inexpensive, a gentleman can purchase quality one at Target for as little as $25.00. You can even lay out your sweaters if you desire-cotton sweaters that is. I sincerely hope you're not tossing your wool sweaters in the wash. If you are...we may have to do a Gent Hints on washing.

Standard Recommendations- Forsyth of Canada Necktie

2012-01-20T12:54:00.015-05:00

Contrary to widespread belief, neckties are not required to be terribly expensive, nor are they mandated to be a popular brand name. Many quality neckties fly silently under the radar as they are overshadowed by larger companies with better advertising and wider distribution. On a routine trip to Von Maur, I was lucky enough to discover Forsyth of Canada neckties. Now, I am not a devout follower of any particular brand that offers neckties, as I am willing to give any company a legitimate chance. On that day, the Forsyth neckties displayed were pretty impressive. Beautiful patterns-a gentleman requires options. Great weight and thickness-perfect for attaining that coveted tie dimple. Soft, yet incredibly resilient woolen texture-necessary for withstanding the rigors of knotting. And the price was respectable, retailing at approximately $60.00, it was a fair asking price for a quality wool necktie. Nevertheless, I patiently waited for a price reduction that was inevitable, so I was able to score a good deal. Forsyth of Canada is definitely a necktie that I will be checking for in the future. Give them a shot if you ever come across any.

Style & Substance- The Ike Behar Wool Pheasant Necktie

2012-01-19T21:49:00.008-05:00

Yes, those are my neckties. And yes, I am currently breaking a rule of style for myself. Not too long ago, I vowed that I would never wear a necktie with an animal motif. It just did not seem like my style. No way was I going to drop some serious coin on a necktie emblazoned with stampeding elephants. Nevertheless, my stance softened when I saw a collection of Ike Behar neckties quietly resting on a display table at Von Maur. If I were going to take a chance on an animal motif, this would be the perfect opportunity. Eventually, I knew I would be able to score a super deal. How did I know? Well, I know my area pretty well. I knew most gentlemen around these parts would possess the same apprehensions I had concerning neckties with a flock of pheasants. Secondly, a majority of gentlemen here only purchase neckties of the silk variety. As good fortune would have it, the prices for these neckties dropped around the same time as the local temperatures did. Therefore, I was able to scoop up a pair for a cool $22.00 each. One blue. One olive. My wife really isn't a fan, but we'll see after I marry them to the right suit, dress shirt, and pocket square. Here are few pictures below.

UPTOWN Gentleman: Guide To The Pocket Square

2012-01-18T12:09:00.004-05:00

A gentleman’s studied approach to dressing well could be considered by some to be a form of elegant art. And if so considered, the presumed dapper gentleman should fancy himself an artist. And as an artist, it is crucial he utilize every tool at his disposal to render a visual that is both impeccable and stunning. Men’s suits, shoes and shirts are always granted favorable attention, but minute sartorial details are sometimes sorely missed. One of those details often left behind is the gentleman’s pocket square. That changes today. Here are the only pocket squares you will ever need in your arsenal. Read on at UPTOWN Magazine for the rest!

Dare To Have A Dream...Make It Reality

2012-01-16T14:04:00.000-05:00

Style & Substance- The Armoury

2012-01-14T22:36:00.008-05:00

The well-dressed gentleman should never be fearful of coordinating unlikely color companions. To be sure, experimentation with various colors in one's wardrobe is loaded with potential risk. Nevertheless, with the proper execution, the resulting presentation can be a wonderful display of a sophisticated touch. Nothing communicates finesse more than a harmonious arrangement of gorgeous hues. For example, the fine gentleman over at The Armoury were kind enough to post an absolutely killer combination of a dusty teal necktie and somber pink dress shirt. Set against the backdrop of a sweet heather gray suit, this is simply a beautiful ensemble. Seriously, this picture had a brother feverishly searching his local mall for a necktie that was similar. Unfortunately, the search continues. No worries, I have plenty of preexisting color options in my closet already, all primed to be coordinated with wicked aplomb. And with the gentlemen at The Armoury providing the visual inspiration, I can't go wrong. Neither should you.

Style & Substance- Armstrong & Wilson Pocket Square

2012-01-13T21:03:00.006-05:00

Armstrong and Wilson

Always on the lookout for some jazzy pocket squares to add to the collection, I spotted these fantastic pocket companions a few months ago. However, I have been grossly negligent in performing my blogging duties, and I have yet to highlight these dynamic pocket squares properly. Established in 2009 by Esquire's "Best Dressed Real Man In America" finalists Ontario Armstrong and Clifton Wilson, the duo have reinvented the classic pocket square with an array of funky pattern & color-along with a signature button detail. A gentleman will definitely garner plenty of attention when accessorizing his suit with one of these beauties. Now, this type of unique charm is not cheap, so expect to drop anywhere from $55.00 to $110.00 per square. Fabric options include linen, cotton, wool/cashmere, and cashmere. Do yourself a favor, go check out Armstrong & Wilson to view the collection. You won't regret it.

The Standard #58

2012-01-10T20:15:00.006-05:00

Sometimes, an elite quarterback is able to drop a well-placed, perfectly thrown football into the outstretched hands of a receiver. Certainly, most passes must be delivered with amazing precision to reach its intended target. However, there are moments when the football follows a less than desirable trajectory, and the receiver has no choice but to do one thing-jump up there and take it! The same can be said for opportunity. Sometimes an opportunity will arrive during a less than optimal time. Case in point: that senior specialist position is now open at my job. It is a role that I reasoned I would pursue after a year of working in my new job. New employees have to wait a minimum of six months before applying to a new position. However, due to a lot of internal movement within the department, that rule has been waived because candidates are sorely needed.

Well, there goes my plan of waiting a year. Now, I could adhere to my originally plan and wait until another opening occurs. Or, I could seize the opportunity now and go all in. Well, I am thinking I am going to jump up there and take it! A gentleman should always capitalize on a fortuitous opportunity-even if the conditions are unexpected or unplanned. Trust in yourself and have faith in God. What are you waiting for? Tomorrow morning...I'm jumping...what about you?

Black Thought

2012-01-06T20:41:00.010-05:00

"Success is to be measured not so much by the position that one has reached in life as by the obstacles which he has overcome."

Booker T Washington

Sure, it would be easy enough to become enamored by the seemingly authoritative, accomplished status of a wildly successful individual. The mere presence of seductive visuals such as expensive status symbols have tremendous influence as they elicit, sometimes, misguided deference from the admirer. However, I challenge the reader to momentarily ignore such material objects. Instead, please divert your attention to the process that granted such accomplishment possible. What did that individual experience during their journey to success? Trust this: The strength of a gentleman's character is forged on the anvil of adversity. Through weathering distress or difficulty, prosperity is procured by he who believes a challenge is an opportunity. An opportunity to steel your will and seize achievement despite any obstacles you might encounter. Don't be impressed by person's materialistic results. Those are nice and fine to look at. Nevertheless, be more impressed with the vanquished adversity that withered in the face of impending success. And then go forth and forge your own.

Style & Substance- Lanvin Tie Clip

2012-01-05T13:22:00.004-05:00

Lanvin

The existence of sound sanity is what prohibits me from hastily purchasing this necktie clip. Arriving with a substantial price-tag of $180.00, I would be utterly insane to procure this beauty from Mr Porter. Nevertheless, one can appreciate understated elegance from a non-tempting distance. This is an incredibly handsome gentleman's accessory. Sometimes, the most sophisticated elements within a gentleman's wardrobe are grounded in graceful simplicity. Be it the dark silhouette, the sleek lines, or subtle onyx crystal insert; this necktie clip provides a discreet touch of panache that can certainly elevate your cool. Especially if your cool has you wearing a dark tailored suit. Laying against the pristine crispness of a white dress shirt, preferably one with French-cuffs, would be absolutely killer. I desperately need to locate a similar clip, but at a much lower cost of course. Or, wait until the next Mr Porter sale and make my move. I am a very patient gentleman you know.

Happy New Year

2012-01-05T00:28:00.003-05:00

Seriously, the audience will truly have to forgive my recent disappearing act. I have to tell you the truth, my holidays really have not been the same since my grandmother passed away 4 years ago. And around this time I get into a slight funk. So, I have not really felt the desire to write. Nevertheless, I hope everyone enjoyed a wonderful and safe holidays. I am definitely ready for the new year. Last year was absolutely fantastic. I moved up from the hospital to our corporate office at Trinity Health. I spoke at Blogging While Brown in California. I spoke at a local Detroit church for a back-to-school workshop. I started writing online for UPTOWN Magazine on a weekly basis. Yes, I was truly blessed. Hopefully, the year 2012 will be great as well-with plans of me becoming Papa Palmer. Stay tuned. Talk to you later.

UPTOWN Gentleman: The Knit Necktie

2011-12-30T14:06:00.005-05:00

Hugo Boss

Well, the long-awaited verdict has finally been rendered, and the results are not at all surprising. Not dissimilar to the bow tie, the knit necktie has steadily gained the approval of the contemporary masses and now a gentleman can comfortably wear one almost anywhere. He is definitely not alone. This quintessential preppy staple is showing up under the dress shirt collar of gentlemen across the map. Just make sure that dress shirt is either a button-down or point collar. Yes, like any other gentleman’s accessory, the knit necktie arrives with certain rules. Here are a few to commit to memory.

Continue showing your love and head over to UPTOWN Magazine to check out the remainder of my latest article HERE.

UPTOWN Gentleman: The Casual Winter Coat

2011-12-29T21:01:00.006-05:00

Johnston & Murphy

Certainly, it would be quite unreasonable to mandate the wearing of a formal overcoat for any and all occasions. The simple reality is this: a gentleman is going to have some downtime in his life. Therefore, a casual overcoat is an intelligent option to have hanging in the closet. Seriously, a gentleman cannot wear a suit and necktie every waking moment of his life. But understand, a casual overcoat should not be so relaxed and flimsy that it shrivels in the presence of challenging weather. It should still maintain a trustworthy sturdiness that is viable in inclement conditions. Here are a few looks at relaxed outerwear and the fashionable way to wear it.

Check out the rest of my article at UPTOWN Magazine HERE.

Style & Substance- The Cotton Necktie

2011-12-28T13:08:00.004-05:00

The Tie Bar

Again, it is probably a tad premature for most gentlemen to concern themselves with spring attire. Nevertheless, it does not hurt to appreciate the exquisite beauty of a fine necktie. Certainly ready for the next season, The Tie Bar released a sneak peek at their new cotton neckties set to launch in 2012. The color and pattern selections are at once vibrant and lively. And get this: all of the selections will be available as bow ties and pocket squares. Perhaps it is not too early to lend some thought to spring after all. Trust, we are definitely living in an exciting time for men's style right now. Style options are plentiful, and access to reputable brands is easier than ever. So, whether it is a pocket square, necktie, or bow tie; I definitely have a few new items on my wish list.

Like Mike

2011-12-24T14:14:00.004-05:00

To be perfectly honest with you, a piece of me recognizes the naivety of youth that would elicit the impassioned desire to own a pair of Air Jordans. A young male becomes enamored with his favorite professional athlete and he wants everything affiliated with him: jerseys, trading cards, or basketball sneakers. It is a big part of his male adolescent life. However, these were not children scratching and clawing for the latest edition of Air Jordans-these were adults. Camped out in the hundreds from city to city to buy the new Air Jordan Retro XI. Last time I checked, Michael Jordan's last game occurred over eight years ago; with his last game as a Chicago Bull at over thirteen years ago-when he was unquestionably in his prime.

Nevertheless, what we witnessed yesterday across the country was the genius, the brilliance of branding and marketing. So wickedly brilliant, individuals can get whipped into a frenzy, some even driven to robbery for a pair of shoes that are impossibly cheap to manufacture. Now, I don't expect a little kid to understand the concept of cheap overseas production and even cheaper labor, but an adult male should know better. The same adult male that probably does not own a decent pair of dress shoes to wear at occasions that matter: a wedding, a funeral, church service, or even a job interview. So then again, maybe they don't know any better. It really is sad because one has to wonder what type of example they are setting for their children. Guys...do better! And pull your pants up for goodness sake. And to baby girl standing out there with them, the word is pneumonia...not ammonia.

Style & Substance- Walk Over Shoes

2011-12-23T09:03:00.004-05:00

Thumbing through a few pages of the latest style magazines for gentlemen, I am noticing a trending line toward colorful bucks for the spring season. Yes, I totally concur that it far too early for the discussion of spring attire. Some of us have not even been subjected to the full might of old man winter yet. Nevertheless, fashion is always months ahead of the current season, so I reckon it would not hurt to grant it some thought. But this current trend isn't new. Actually, the timeless buck began its transformation approximately a year ago, as brightly hued selections began hitting the shelves with regularity. I didn't jump on the train then, but I am giving it some serious thought for next year. I am not really a sneaker kind of gentleman, so I could benefit from having some casual selections in my shoe rotation. I am really digging the colorful soles on the ones pictured above. By the time I locate a cool pair, they will undoubtedly be discounted-by then we'll be talking fall fashion anyway!

Black Thought

2011-12-21T21:05:00.003-05:00

"Nothing in all the world is more dangerous than sincere ignorance and conscientious stupidity."

Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

I am truly, deeply bewildered by individuals who willfully display the type of lethargic intellectualism that compels them to believe they own a word. Perhaps I missed the revolution, was absent during the civil lawsuit, or fell asleep during the meeting-but when did African Americans secure exclusive copyrights to the word nigger? Now, I know this post is coming out of left field, but I saw this tired argument being bounced around on a few forums and I wanted to briefly address the subject. Look, African Americans don't own the word nigger, no more than a gang affiliate owns the street they are willing to kill or die for. If you so desire to use the word, then use it. However, please don't offer up the implausible argument that you can because you own it. Because, if you own nigger, you would appreciate the wretched history attached to it, and I would really hope that appreciation would halt its reckless usage. But then again, we are still having this conversation, so probably not.

Style & Substance- The Skull and Crossbones Pocket Square

2011-12-20T23:35:00.012-05:00

The Tie Bar

Well, my loving wife has already submitted her stern vote of disapproval for this pocket square from The Tie Bar. Admittedly, I am not sure what woman would be in favor of a skull & crossbones motif. However, there is something mildly appealing about this particular pocket square. Perhaps it is the intrigue of adding a hint of rogue flair to my presentation. Given my conservative personality, Stephanie offered me a dismissive roll of the eye at such a purchase. I must readily confess that this is a little out of the sartorial box for me, but I am really leaning toward making this purchase. Paired with a dark charcoal gray suit, white shirt dress shirt, and black necktie-I really think the look could work. I wish this pocket square arrived in a variety of colors, but an e-mail to The Tie Bar revealed that this is the only color available at this moment. So, should I take the plunge with this quirky square, or follow the counsel of my wife and move on?

Style & Substance- The Striped Sock

2011-12-19T22:22:00.009-05:00

Phineas Cole

In my younger days, I was a white tube sock kind of gentleman. I would make a trip to Target to purchase a few value packs of white socks and I was good to go. Of course when the occasion begged for a dressier alternative, I recruited a trusted pair of black or blue for the job. However, as I grew older and started to explore more stylish options, I began to to gravitate toward brighter colors and more interesting patterns. Striped hosiery surged in popularity, at least to my recollection, approximately 5-7 years ago. I added a few pairs to my dresser drawer and I have been hooked ever since. Still popular, I have noticed that the stripes have increased in width with a more audacious color offering. Trust me, these are not for the serious conservative. Utilize these socks only when the finishing touch requires that you stand alone from the pack-where you should be.

Hugo Boss

Paul Smith

Marc by Marc Jacobs

Happy Socks

The Gentlemen's Ten- Style Reinvention

2011-12-19T21:25:00.003-05:00

Allow me to reveal a tiny secret to the reading audience...well defined style is not as complicated & complex as one might perceive. Truthfully, the practice of dressing well is more mental than actual task. However, I totally understand how dressing well can fluster the average gentleman. Great style implores the urgency to direct full attention to detail. Unfortunately, the average male is not one to be weighed down by sartorial fussiness. That of course should be regulated to the realms of women's fashion. Correct? Wrong! I am far from a historical scholar, so I cannot exactly pinpoint when pride in one's appearance became negatively associated with imitating a female. There was even a brief moment where a cute term was coined to describe heterosexual men who cared about grooming & dress. Metrosexual. To this day, I still don't quite understand what it means. However, I digress; style should not be intimidating, overly difficult, or stigmatized. In a previously penned post, I explained some psychological barriers I had to overcome to start dressing better. Here are some personal guidelines that I employed to transform my closet.

10. I had to cease putting so much stock into what people thought about me. To a certain degree, a gentleman does dress for the viewing public. And he must display some intelligence about how our society works when it concerns appropriate attire. However, if you are a male who loves bow ties; then by all means wear them. The gentleman can't become overly concerned with public mockery. You are your own unique person and your tastes are your tastes.

9. I had to seek wise fashion counsel, in my particular case it was my wife. Now, you must possess your own identity; but another eye for style may be able to spot something you did not. My wife offers great advice when it concerns my clothes. It is sometimes a smart thing to listen to your significant other.

8. I had to develop a sartorial signature. I would look like a total idiot if I tried to rock some skinny jeans. Likewise, I would look foolish if I wore over-sized & baggy denim jeans with Timberland boots. That is just not my character. I had to start selecting clothing items that were indicative of my personality. This was easy because my lifestyle was a blank canvas. I bought clothing without rhyme or reason, so it was like starting from scratch. I am pretty conservative, so a majority of my closet consists of suits, sport coats, neckties, and leather dress shoes.

6. I redefined my casual life. Fantastic style is a style that embraces diversity. As much as a gent should carry off his own signature look, the same look could become boring and stale. Recognizing this, I ensured that my reinvigorated closet also retained some casual flavor. Shapeless denim was now replaced with better fitting and crisp alternatives. Ragged basketball sneakers were replaced by boat shoes, casual loafers, and canvas sneakers.

5. I became closely acquainted with quality and proven brands. Allen Edmonds, Hart Schaffner Marx, and Joseph Abboud are a few brands that populate my closet. I visited luxury departments and familiarized myself with how luxury feels. Then I purchased clothing that I could afford. John Lobb shoes are great, but I don't have John Lobb money. Allen Edmonds on deep discount was a suitable compromise for me. I also chose brands that I could closely identify with. Ed Hardy? Hardly.

6. I started to read, read, and then read some more. Esquire Handbook of Style, Alan Flusser's Dressing the Man, and Bernhard Roetzel's Gentleman- A Timeless Fashion are great starting points. I gobbled up pages of GQ & Esquire. I bought Men's Health every time they offered a style issue. I could not get enough. This greatly increased my knowledge of style.

5. I developed a practical and methodical process for building a handsome wardrobe. For example, I started my necktie collection by selecting silk ties. Solids. Stripes. Polka dots. Woven florals. I then moved on to wool neckties. After that, I made an effort to select wool/cashmere neckties. Now, unless one has the monetary funds to make all purchases at once; I would definitely approach building an elegant wardrobe as a job that requires time.

4. I recognized that trends vary greatly from style. Trends bear the tendency to fluctuate. Investing in a fresh wardrobe, the gent cannot afford to waste his finances on clothing that might look dated in the near future. So, I decided to invest in classic items that would provide the most longevity. Example of a trend: skinny neckties & jeans. A majority of America is overweight, so it really puzzles me to see such an aggressive push toward skinny clothing products. Don't get me wrong, smaller gents need love too; but I saw a necktie the other day smaller than the width of my cell phone. I mean...seriously.

3. I started shopping smarter. I got to know sales staff. I shopped online. I shopped for clothes on clearance at the end of seasons. I found out when specific clothes went on sale. I found out when stores received shipment for new products. I did everything I could to place myself in the optimal position to buy quality product at a low cost.

2. I unlocked my creativity. I had to think outside my box. Sure, I am fairly conservative; but I had to sneak a couple of wild items into my attire. Not too wild though. However, my repertoire does have a little Ted Baker and Paul Smith to add some spice to my reserved look. Conversely, if your style is fashion forward, you should include some pieces that reflect a more serious tone.

1. I had to understand the moment. Meaning, I dressed appropriately for the situation. No need to frantically scramble trying to find something to wear. Weddings. Funerals. Job interviews. Going to Seldom Blues. In the past, I wore clothes to events that probably embarrassed my wife. So, I had to start following her lead until it became second nature. My clothes are organized for a specific task. Professional. Casual. Business-casual. Winter. Summer. Everything has a purpose.

Style & Substance- Hugo Boss Necktie

2011-12-17T14:08:00.004-05:00

Hello good people, I just wanted to share another picture from my necktie collection. This a Hugo Boss offering that I saw on the shelf a few months back. It was of a slimmer pedigree, so it remained on the rack. And then the price dropped so low that I had to grant it an additional look. For $23.00, it was far too tempting to pass up. Underneath a sweater, I figured that the width wouldn't be that much of a problem, so I decided to break my own rules and purchase it. Besides, I thought the color and pattern were terrific. The necktie's gray & purple check would finely complement a light gray, lilac, or even a white dress shirt. The dress shirt pattern of choice: a thick or thin stripe would suffice, or a smaller check-to balance the big check in the necktie. I will have to dig around in my closet to locate a suitable partner.

First Family

2011-12-15T19:39:00.001-05:00

Politics aside, I am really loving this photograph of the Obama Family. For all of the negative attention that the African American family unit receives, it is always great to see a beautiful family picture such as this. It makes me especially proud. Someday, I will have a family portrait like this hanging in my home. All that is missing are the children. However, my wife has already informed me that 2012 will be the year that we start trying. Pray for me!

Style & Substance- Wool Flannel Bow Tie

2011-12-13T23:24:00.011-05:00

Phineas Cole

Quite a few years ago, the incomparable bow tie staged a furious return to the world of men's style. Championed by a few well-dressed dandies, fearless gentlemen across the nation secured at least a couple to seamlessly weave into their wardrobe. But, before we could become buried beneath a superfluous heap of whimsical cloth, or driven to insane irritation because of its exaggerated usage, the trend leveled off and the bow tie became an ordinary, contemporary staple in a gent's closet. Demonstrating surprising sartorial sustainability, the bow tie appears to be here to stay. And not as a quirky conversation starter. Check out the seriousness of this wool flannel offering from Phineas Cole. Devoid colorful polka dots or rambunctious animal motifs, this bow tie coveys a quiet sophistication requisite of a refined gentleman-a standard we should all seek to retain.

Gent Hints- Knotting The Gentleman's Scarf

2011-12-12T23:08:00.009-05:00

So, I posted this video a few months showcasing the art of knotting a gentleman's scarf. Well, the temperatures were rather mild back then, but now the situation is getting serious. It's getting brisk out there. You're really going to need that scarf, and you are going to need it soon. So, take another look at this video as a refresher and bundle up tight. You're going to need it!

Work Ethic

2011-12-11T18:13:00.003-05:00

Apologies, but I just had to post this video. So, Mr. Gingrich believes that work ethic can be instilled with the youth within the inner city by handing them a broomstick and mop. Yes, janitorial work, or environmental services if you are employed where I am employed. Now, it is not my intent to demean or debase the work of janitors or maids. However, replacing the preexisting unionized janitorial crew for cheaper, younger labor is probably not the best way build a kid's work habits. Personally, I believe that you should start first with education. Stressing the absolute importance of education is paramount. Diligence and work ethic commences with earnest study habits and getting good grades. And work ethic also involves exposing a child to a world that extends beyond their inner city or impoverished situation.

You may be familiar with the expression: if you shoot for the moon and miss, at least you will be amongst the stars. You can't do that limiting their expectations to a broom or mop. Again, no disrespect to janitorial service. But I think we should implore our youth to dream a little bigger; beyond a janitor, rapper, or even a professional athlete. Our children require options...viable options that induce pride and confidence in their work. So, even if you are going to require a kid to push a broom after school, just ensure that you tie that into a program that entails a trip to a museum, volunteering at a hospital, or a trip to a college campus. Stop looking for cheaper labor under guise of "building" their work ethic. That is just disingenuous and duplicitous.

Mr Porter

2011-12-10T01:01:00.011-05:00

Today, I officially received my eagerly anticipated package from Mr Porter. For my service as a mystery shopper, utilizing their customer service center, I was granted a virtual gift card for my troubles. Recognizing that a sale was on the horizon, I held tight to my virtual gift card until the timing was just right. And then the sale finally occurred. My first picks for my necktie selection were gone, so I proceeded with my secondary options-every gentleman should have a plan B. I decided on a Burberry and Gant necktie, both dazzling blends of wool and silk, and both ready to join the ranks of my wool necktie collection. Even the boxes that they arrived in, separately I might add, looked fantastic. The boxes and packaging were really classy and didn't incur an additional cost. I probably won't even discard the boxes. Necktie nostalgia. You can catch me on the next episode of Hoarders-necktie edition. Until then, enjoy the pictures.

Black Thought

2011-12-09T13:42:00.004-05:00

"The need for external validation is what has become a major problem. We have allowed what we do to define who we are. You fought for that title. You needed that title, now you got laid off and have to look yourself in the mirror and ask, "Who am I?" How you get over that is to accept that what you do does not define who your are. You have to separate your net worth from your self-worth. Your net worth is going to fluctuate- as it should. That's what net worth does, but your self-worth should only appreciate. That's where a lot if us got mixed up big time."

Chris Gardner

Whether a gentleman is pondering the purpose of his life & career, is having an exceedingly difficult time at work, or has ultimately lost his employment; the self-assured gentleman is subject to have his confidence shaken to its foundation like anyone else. Our mental state has allowed us to intimately connect our career performances to the value of our masculinity. If we fail to meet the expectation of being provider, the entire complexion of being a man is affected negatively. As mountainous a task this may be, the gentleman must break the connection between net worth and self-worth. Recognize your talents. Write them down. Identify your weaknesses and remedy them. Now is not the time for self pity. An intricate component to who we are is predicated on our ability to confront adverse situations and extract some level of success. Remember what brought you to the current dance and go crash the next party. Especially during challenging economic times, the gentleman can ill afford his confidence to be unsteady. The gentleman is strong, steady, skilled, and secure. Deep down you always knew it. Now prove it.

Style & Substance- Denim Dress Shirt

2011-12-08T21:10:00.005-05:00

Paul Stuart

Generally, I am a tremendous admirer of the Paul Stuart brand. Today, not so much. The denim button-down dress shirt? Not really a fan of the presentation. I fully understand the whole roughened appeal that the denim is supposed to bring to the equation. It has a country feel to it. However, I am not a country type of gentleman. Apologies, I am a city gentleman. And the whole Brett Favre vibe just does not resonate with my sartorial sensibilities. Add to the fact that I don't like pairing a necktie and button-down shirt, and this assemblage of men's furnishings just does not work for me. However, all is not lost here. I really dig the woolen pocket square. But that is neither here nor there. So, how about the good gentlemen in the audience? Does this outfit work for any of you gents out there?

I'm Just Saying...Do Better

2011-12-08T14:03:00.006-05:00

"I think I'm addicted to naked pictures, and sittin' talkin' 'bout b*tches that we almost had. I don't think I'm conscious of making monsters out of the women that I sponsor 'til it all goes bad. But sh*t it's all good. We threw a party, yeah we threw a party. B*tches came over, yeah, we threw a party."

Drake

Currently, we are living in a curious musical age; only in this era can a rapper reduce a woman's status exclusively to a b*tch, stripper, or future sexual conquest, and then have the temerity to instruct a young woman about how to love. Curious and sad indeed. So, thank you Little Wayne for masquerading your mediocre, vulgar talent as thoughtful brilliance. Well played sir, you even duped GQ into naming you as one of their Men of the Year. Very well played.

And let us not forget your lyrical wingman-Drake. Employing a silky nasal pitch that only Fran Drescher would adore, Drake has performed a masterful job cloaking lyrics drenched with ambivalent misogyny & unequivocal scorn in tunes that sound like love songs. So masterful, he even secured the talents of Stevie Wonder for his new album Take Care...absolute marketing genius.

But seriously Stevie, I understand that you are absent sight, but your ears should be functioning just fine. Have you even listened to Drizzy's music? Can we expect a Drake remix album of Stevie Wonder classics? I Just Called To Say I Love You...B*tch. Signed, Sealed, Delivered, I'm Yours...B*tch. Okay, you may think I am exaggerating, but have you listened to Marvin's Room? That song took crass to soulful levels we have never reached before. I guess all types of love requires fair representation right?

As a male, I can partially understand how Drake satisfies the testosterone fueled fantasies of men who dream about being the sexualized alpha male. And even then, such an existence would be devoid of any meaningful intimacy or substance. And women? I cannot see the appeal of objectification. Or, in some cases degradation.

So, I am left to wonder: Is this the future of rhythm and blues? What is it about Drizzy and company that make them so darn irresistible? Don't Wayne and Drake represent, at least through their music, all the characteristics a woman would abhor in a male partner? I'm not sure about you, but I think this music is tired and lacking substance. Alas, their music continues to sell. So even though I wish the artists of today would do better, chances are they won't.

Style & Substance- Allen Edmonds Steinbok

2011-12-07T14:08:00.004-05:00

Allen Edmonds Steinbok

I could really use a great saddle shoe in my footwear rotation. And Allen Edmonds have recently thrown temptation in my path. Now, a more affordable option would certainly be a pair from G.H. Bass, with the added incentive that Bass has frequent sales. Well, at least more frequently than Allen Edmonds. Nevertheless, A & E are offering the new Steinbok for a sales price of $199.00-which is still pretty steep for an average gentleman's pockets. Nonetheless, this is really a handsome shoe that would add a hint of casual elegance to the hem of your standard issue khakis. And truthfully, I have even seen saddle shoes paired with conservative business suits, the results were surprisingly refined with a touch of playful flamboyance. But I digress, you may not be able to reach deep into your pockets to grab some Steinboks, but you certainly can take in the visual and appreciate the beauty. These are some great looking shoes.

Guess He Cain't

2011-12-05T14:32:00.006-05:00

Seriously, Herman Cain needs to cease with the manufactured deviance. Cain is certainly not the victim that he is so passionately trying to portray. He is not the recipient of a coordinated media conspiracy to undermine his presidential hopes, nor is he the victim of prejudice or racism. Cain should really stop flattering himself, his campaign was not on the path to the presidency. If anything, the only real damage sustained by Mr. Cain is the harm that may be done to his future book tours and speaking engagements. Victim? Stop it. The subsequent demise of Cain's presidential bid was due to one thing: credibility, or lack thereof. Allegation after allegation. Accusal after accusal. Was anything proven? No. But ambiguous denial after ambiguous denial and evolving excuse after evolving excuse is what ultimately spelled doom for the Cain campaign.

Fact: you admit to a 13 year relationship with a woman that your wife didn't even know existed-until she probably saw the breaking news on CNN. Ouch! Not a way for a wife to find out you have been secretly paying another woman's bills and talking to her at 4 in the morning. I wonder how that would play in my household? As a matter of fact, I don't have to wonder, I KNOW what the result would be. I would require a police escort when I went home. Victim? Sorry Herman, try again.

Once a man's integrity and honesty comes into question; past transgressions will be evaluated under a different, more stringent microscope. Which would lead back to the previous allegations of sexual harassment. Again, was anything proven? The answer remains no. But we now know that there was a "settlement" involved, which in Cain's defense, is not an admission of guilt. Nevertheless, with so much baggage mounting week after week, one would finally have to look at the reality: can you really get people to rally around you with donations and voting for you at the polls? And so this weekend, Cain did the inevitable, he "suspended" his campaign-or in other words: he dropped out. Well, thanks for not wasting anymore of the people's time that you have already wasted up to this point. Victim? Not in the least. Can't wait for the book.

Third World Press

2011-12-04T16:34:00.003-05:00

This has been a long time coming. Trying to balance writing blog content, working a regular job, being a husband, volunteering in the community, and networking across the Internet spectrum can be quite demanding. Add in wildcards that life will deal you time to time, and it does not seem that there are enough hours in the day to accomplish everything you set your mind to. Nevertheless, I am proud to announce that I have linked up with Third Word Press to start doing book reviews.

Third World Press is the largest independently black-owned press in the United States. Publishing since 1967, Third World Press operates under the guidance of founder, chairman-Haki R. Madhudbuti. First up, I am going to be looking at In His Image with engravings by Letterio Calapai: foreword by Rev. Dr. Jeremiah A. Wright Jr.; afterword by Rev. Dr. Frank M. Reid III; and reflections by Rev. Dr. Cain Hope Felder. This what Haki R. Madhudbuti has to say about this literary offering:

"The creation of In His Image validates and confirms the beauty and value of books. I am convinced that although readers may be able to access the text and images by electronic and other means, there is no greater satisfaction than holding a well-crafted book in ones hands. This book shows the "why we do what we do" at Third World Press is so vitally important."

So, please show some love and visit Third World Press and check out their massive selection of literary work. Be sure to check back here for the latest reviews and releases in the future. Take care and I will talk to you later.

Luther

2011-12-03T23:22:00.005-05:00

I love a great promotional video. Idris Elba has been a favorite actor of mine going back to his days portraying Stringer Bell on HBO's The Wire-arguably the best series that channel has ever produced. Set to the haunting tune of Nina Simone's rendition of "Misunderstood", we see Elba's character explode into a fit of rage-but we see it in reverse. Nice. Reminds me of The Pharcyde's video for "Drop".

Black Thought

2011-12-02T21:44:00.003-05:00

"You lose a lot of time, hating people."

Marian Anderson

It amazes me how much time and energy is wasted on hating one another. Whether you hate your family, coworker, or friend; your life would be better served by focusing on positive things. I know that there may be people who have caused you great harm. I recognize that there are individuals who may have caused you great heartache. However, negative energy accomplishes nothing more but erode you from the inside out. What is the best way to deal with hard feelings that may be bottled inside? First, I would suggest deep prayer asking for guidance. Some things, as hard as it might be, may have to be let go. Second, I would transform negative energy into something more construction and fruitful.

Sure, lashing out in an angry fashion would feel great in the interim. However, this method of dealing with situations give only momentary satisfaction. Utilizing your time and effort towards positive goals give more of a sustained and long lasting effect. You will will feel much better in the long run and you will feel proud of your good works. You will also be amazed by how much positivity will return to you in the future. Hate and ill feelings can sometimes be like carrying a bag full of bricks. Sometimes you just have to put them down and continue your journey ahead. Talk to you later.

StyleLikeU- Glenn O'Brien

2011-12-01T14:28:00.005-05:00

It's always refreshing to see style authorities who appear to be regular gentlemen. Some come across as too arrogant and too smug for my tastes. However, Glenn O'Brien seems like a regular gentleman who just happens to possess a wealth of sartorial knowledge. I regularly read O'Brien's columns in GQ magazine as "The Style Guy". They are at once informative and charmingly funny. Here, O'Brien sits down with StyleLikeU to offer his thoughts on all things stylish. A big thanks to StyleLikeU for bringing another great video to the public. Excellent video!

UPTOWN Gentleman: The Topcoat

2011-11-30T23:27:00.003-05:00

Much attention is often granted to a myriad of stylish clothing within a gentleman’s closet. His suit. His watch. His oxfords. Everything is perfectly, squarely in place. That is until his coat is closely examined. So, why the neglect, can’t an overcoat get any love? Whether you assign yourself to the belief or not, every well-dressed gentleman requires an elegant topcoat, lest the distinction of well-dressed be relinquished if you are still rocking your coat from high school. But, before we commence with our topcoat recommendations, there are two key points to keep in mind: Ditch the bulk for a streamlined silhouette, but ensure your coat is large enough to slide over your suit jacket. And the hem of your coat should fall either directly above or below the knee-never at the ankles. Now, let’s get down to business.

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The Hill-Side

2011-11-29T23:36:00.009-05:00

The Hill-Side

Dutifully, patiently I had been watching for the highly anticipated sale at Mr Porter. Armed with my virtual gift card I received for participating in their mystery shopping program, I was poised to unabashedly pounce on a delicious discount and further add to my necktie collection. The target: a sweet woolen knit by Brooklyn-based designer The Hill-Side. At this juncture in my necktie collecting escapades, I am on the prowl for quirky, whimsical pieces of neckwear that one wouldn't usually spy in the workplace. And the necktie pictured above was to be mine. I was really drawn to the unique flecks of color sparsely sprinkled throughout the woolen fabric. This was one handsome necktie. Alas, one morning I was slipping and didn't check Mr Porter to verify that the sale was underway. By mid afternoon I remembered to check in-but it was too late. The sale had commenced and The Hill-Side neckties were marked down 50%. As I scrolled and scrolled, my intended target was absent from the bunch. Investigating further, I discovered it had sold out. Well, you win some sales...you lose some sales. Better luck next time I guess. Hopefully, I will be able to source this necktie from an alternate location before the season is out. Time to resume the search!

Style & Substance- The Beauty of Brown

2011-11-28T22:52:00.004-05:00

Esquire

In many ways, brown is a forgotten color option in a gentleman's wardrobe. For his suit selection, a gentleman usually reaches for his trusted navy or charcoal gray business suit. His casual wardrobe is almost totally comprised of some hue of khaki. And when in doubt, black is always the default option for sartorial safety. The only time brown may enjoy preference is when a man decides to wear some brown shoes. And even in this case, brown is still running neck and neck with black has a primary shoe choice. Nevertheless, a gentleman should not deprive himself of such a rich color. From a smoky tobacco to a decadent chocolate, incorporating brown into your clothing rotation would be a very wise decision, as it is just as much a neutral as black, navy, or even gray. And it complements a myriad of colors that may not readily jump to mind. How about taking a brown and pairing it with a mossy green? Or, how about marrying it with a vibrant pink? Even a hint of purple, like the scarf shown above, can add some pop to a gentleman's presentation. Brown. What can it do for you? If you ask me...lots.

Chicken Noodle Soup

2011-11-27T17:29:00.005-05:00

By request, I spent the Sunday afternoon preparing some homemade chicken noodle soup for my wife. It has been a tiring week as my wife had a bad allergic reaction to some medicine, thus provoking a trip-and subsequent admission-to the hospital. So, I didn't have the traditional Thanksgiving this year, as I was keeping her company during the holiday. Truthfully, I didn't need any sweet potato pie anyway! So, she is out now and things are well. And so she asked if I would be cooking some soup this weekend. After 2.5 hours in the kitchen, I was able to produce a dish that would put Campbell's Soup to shame. I must admit, this was some damn tasty chicken noodle soup. I have already devoured two bowls. Easy to make too. Just ensure you have the time to make the broth, cut the carrots & celery, and pull apart the chicken. I just turned on a football game to pass the time. I was so proud of my work, I decided to test out the quality on my camera phone and share a picture-not bad. Well, hope everyone had a great holiday and I hope to get back to writing on regular pretty soon. Still working on the new website too. And if anyone wants to tackle their own chicken noodle soup, I am more than willing to share a tip or two. Be easy.

Gent Hints- The Spray Bottle

2011-11-27T13:07:00.001-05:00

I am going to be brutally honest with the reader today. I am not particularly fond of sorting and folding clothes. For organizational and neatness purposes, it is a necessary evil that the gentleman must undertake. The dreaded laundry basket. It is a project that helplessly falls victim to determined procrastination. I can't quite describe the feeling that overwhelms me as I stare at the laundry basket with what seems like infinite garments.

Teeming with short sleeve polo shirts, flat front khaki trousers, and spread collar dress shirts; the clothing amounts are seemingly boundless. So, they remain firmly planted in the corner of the room. As a wicked repercussion, wrinkles and creases set up shop and refuse to vacate the premises. Nothing beats week old wrinkles in a dress shirt. No matter how fine or expensive a garment, looking like you just rolled out of bed is a style breaker. Definitely.

When I was younger and was foolish in my habits, I would iron and iron. And iron some more. No worries. Old habits die hard with a vengeance, but a gentleman gains wisdom through mistakes. So, some of my clothes may still remain in the laundry basket for an extended period of time; but now I handle the bundle differently from my younger days. Enter the spray bottle.

Yes, a simple spray bottle that you can purchase from any Dollar Tree. Plug in your trusted Rowenta. Fill your spray bottle with a little H2O. Lightly mist your wrinkled garments until slightly damp (slightly!!) and iron away. The resulting steam will hammer out stingy wrinkles in no time. Hey, now I don't feel as guilty for leaving that laundry unattended. Well, not as much.

Style & Substance- The Solid Necktie

2011-11-26T21:29:00.003-05:00

Hickey Freeman

Gentlemen, if you will, please dismiss the errant chatter that would lead you to believe that solid neckties are boring and totally irrelevant. Nonsense. Contemporary trends advocate wearing bold, inviting, and colorful pattern. And to be certain, a plain necktie probably won't be the sexiest piece of fabric in your closet. Nevertheless, a solid necktie affords a welcoming level of sobriety to a wardrobe that generally leans toward a more adventurous climate. Truth be told, a solid dark necktie arriving in navy or gray will grant an air of polish that is bold in its own right-especially against the landscape of a white dress shirt. The visual undoubtedly communicates a sense of authority. A gentleman only requires a few solid shades in his repertoire. And as navy or gray are perennial favorites, a rustic brown or eggplant purple should be offered careful consideration. Trust, no one in the office will look as sharp as you. No doubt.

Tom Ford- The Minimalist

2011-11-23T15:29:00.006-05:00

Minimalist. Magnificence. It should be a felony to be this obscenely put together. Limited color palette, executed with flawless aplomb. Sometimes, a gentleman doesn't require much more. Black and white, or gray and white-combined with a sculpted silhouette can transform ordinary to extraordinary. And no one probably does it better than Tom Ford. Dark suit. White shirt. Dark necktie. And the collar bar? Seriously...a fine touch of finesse. Take notice of this ensemble and emulate the elegance.

UPTOWN Gentleman: The Winter Hat

2011-11-23T14:46:00.005-05:00

It has been extensively documented that a mother knows best. Maternal instinct dictates a protective nature that is most times lost on children who believe they know better. However, under the guidance of stern counsel, we follow orders such as brush your teeth, do your homework, and put a hat on because it is cold outside. Put a hat on? Hats aren’t necessary, at least to us, so we mount a compelling counter argument of resistance. Nevertheless, the specter of our adolescence ultimately rendered the possibility of a meaningful vote in the matter null-despite our vehement objections. And so with a frown, we begrudgingly retrieved our winter hat and headed out the door-with an attitude. Perhaps it is this remnant from our defiant, rebellious youth that has subconsciously manifested itself during our adult years, hence the dearth of gentlemen who actually wear hats nowadays. And no, baseball hats don’t count. I understand that you are all grown up now, but it’s cold out there. Remember your mother’s advice and put a hat on, you will catch pneumonia son. Here are a few options.

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Gent Hints- Lapel & Necktie Width

2011-11-21T23:27:00.006-05:00

Phineas Cole

If the average gentleman strives to earn the distinction of being reasonably well-dressed, he must assign studious attention to proportion and balance. The smallest consideration to detail could very well distinguish one from being effortlessly polished to requiring a little more effort. That being said, an area that is sometimes subject to neglect is the chest area on a gentleman's suit jacket-particularly the proportional relationship between the lapel and necktie. Conventional, sartorial wisdom dictates that the two roughly share the same width. As this is not an exact science, a gentleman must afford special attention to this matter; popular men's clothiers have taken liberty and slightly augmented both lapel and necktie-often unbeknown to the regular guy.

As contemporary silhouettes have undoubtedly slimmed down, so too has the width of the lapel on the suit jacket. Purchasing such a suit could result in a curious dilemma. If a gentleman has rejected the possibility of wearing a slim necktie, he may be stuck wearing a necktie bearing modest girth-thus resulting in an uneven visual balance. It would be wise for a gentleman to bring a necktie that represents the average width of his collection as he shops for a new suit. It would be unfortunate to purchase a killer suit; only to realize that the lapel is decidedly slimmer than your neck wear. However, no one is suggesting you venture into a men's department armed with a ruler. With practice, a gentleman should be able to eyeball what is slim and what is not.

So, what is slim and what is regular? Well, a slim necktie would fall approximately between 2 and 2.25 inches in width. Your moderate, a contemporary favorite, width usually checks in between 2.5 and 3 inches. More traditional neckties are 3 inches and up, but no more than 3.5 inches across. Any bigger and we are swimming in lobster bib territory. Any smaller than than 2 inches across and you will encounter the challenge of being taken seriously. So, take a look into your closet, if you have not purchased a suit in the last five years, you will really want to inspect any new neckties you are ready to purchase. Conversely, you will want to take a quick look at your neckties if you are shopping for a new suit. Take note and shop accordingly.

Esquire Celebrity Hall of Shame 2011

2011-11-20T11:03:00.004-05:00

Now, usually I don't post stories from other websites , but this story was such a funny read, I just had to post it. Finally, a major publication is stating what we have known for a year now-most of these popular celebrity men just cannot dress. Period. Or at least they have ceased trying. Forget throwing together pieces of obscenely expensive clothing in a disjointed manner and calling it fashion-it's not. And so, Esquire brings to us a collection of men whom some have granted the title of fashion icon and others who just look awful. Check out the opening paragraph below, and then head over to Esquire to view the entire list. Our first inductee for 2011-Mr. Kanye West. What a surprise.

From Esquire:

"Because we're sick of the antics. There was a point, back when Kanye first became interested in fashion, when he was improving with each season, borrowing clothes from the runway and making them look fantastic on stage. Then a not-so-funny thing happened: Yeezy started taking items from the women's runway. He wore blouses and jackets and even sometimes dresses at the many concerts scheduled to promote his two most recent albums, which also featured many women's designers in the lyrics (Phoebe Philo, anyone?). He then went and designed his own line of women's clothing, presented at Paris Fashion Week. Which showed exactly how little Kanye West knew about how a woman — or, you know, a massively talented performer posing as a massively ridiculous fashion icon — should be getting dressed."

Read the entire list and view the slideshow of Hall of Fame horror over at Esquire HERE.

Black Thought

2011-11-18T22:51:00.004-05:00

"In these strenuous times, we are likely to become morbid and look constantly upon the dark side of life. We spend entirely too much time considering and brooding over what we can't do, rather than what we can do. Instead of growing morose and despondent over opportunities that are shut from us, let us rejoice at the many unexplored fields in which there is unlimited fame and fortune to the successful explorer."

George Washington Carver

It is important that we approach life with a positive attitude and outlook. Life can be intensely stressful and tends to narrow our focus on only the negative aspects of life. Think of the many awards that can be reaped if we transfer negative energy into more constructive avenues that are beneficial to our physical, professional, and spiritual being. Don't hesitate, there is uncharted territory awaiting to be discovered. Realize the potential in positive thinking and discover success yet to be reached.

Style & Substance- The Slim Necktie

2011-11-17T14:40:00.005-05:00

Michael Fassbender- GQ

As I have stated in the past, the ultra slim necktie is not an accessory that I will fancy myself employing in my wardrobe any time soon. Nevertheless, I recognize the fact that it works quite well for certain gentlemen. One such gentleman is Michael Fassbender; featured here in his GQ pose for their Men of the Year issue. Yes, the sculpted shoulders and trim silhouette compliments his narrow necktie superbly. It sort of reminds me of Daniel Craig when he first debuted as his roguish version of James Bond. And notice the tie bar-perfectly proportioned to the slim width of his necktie of choice. If you are a proponent of slimmer neckties, I would suggest visiting The Tie Bar if you are in the market for narrow tie bars. They have a good inventory with varying length and color for a paltry $15.00. It is really worth investigating. Fassbender's necktie does appear a touch too long, but when you are looking this smooth, a small flaw like that can certainly be forgiven.

The Standard #57

2011-11-15T23:10:00.007-05:00

I started in my current position as a procurement specialist in late May. I had transferred from the hospital to our corporate office because my position was being eliminated due to a computer system upgrade. So, I have settled nicely into my new position, and I have every intention of moving up to attain a procurement senior specialist position in my department. Now, that may seem a little presumptuous on my part because no gentleman can predict the future. Nevertheless, I can demonstrate the type of diligence and work ethic to certainly influence it. A successful gentleman is also an ambitious gentleman.

Now, the other day I encountered a problem that required researching purchase orders, contacting alternate vendors, comparing contract pricing, etc. When I approached my team lead for further instruction, she informed me that this issue should be handled by a senior specialist. Thinking for a bit, she told me to keep it because my follow-up would be thorough and fast. That communicated to me that she had confidence that I could finish the job. I still have a lot to learn. But within a year, I intend to absorb all the knowledge and information I can. So, when the next job opening is available and my annual review is up, this gentleman is going to be ready and prepared. See you in a year when I get that position.

UPTOWN Gentleman: The Winter Glove

2011-11-14T14:11:00.004-05:00

Paul Stuart

So, last week we covered an important winter accessory that every well-dressed gentleman should own: the dashing scarf. This week, we are going to cover yet another quintessential accessory that should definitely be a faithful servant during the upcoming winter months: the sorely under-appreciated winter glove. Too early? It is never too early to enact preemptive measures against the cold. Seriously, the Northeast just got pounded with an unexpected snowstorm, so a gentleman can never be over-prepared. Forget about the usual flimsy pair that you unenthusiastically grab off the store shelf, you require a few pairs that can competently do one important job: keep your hands warm. Let’s take a look at your options.

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Style & Substance- The Tweed Suit

2011-11-09T14:53:00.004-05:00

To be perfectly honest, I am still not a supporter of the whole relaxed, whimsical presentation of a loosely knotted necktie. If you are going through the entire knotting exercise, a gentleman should just complete the look and tighten it up. That is just my humble opinion. But that is neither here or there, today we are looking at the tweed suit, executed properly here by Dwyane Wade. Forgetting that Mr. Wade plays for the loathsome Miami Heat, the man knows how to dress, or at least he hires the proper staff to dress him. Here, his suit is perfectly contoured to his proportions-nothing excessively slim; just appropriately tailored for his stature. And a quick note to gentlemen who still rock the six button suits: Wade stands 6 foot 4, but he opts here to sport a two button suit-and it looks fantastic! Keep that in mind. Tweed jackets have enjoyed a history of being bulky and itchy, but contemporary versions have reduced the mass and refined the fabric. The result: a definite winner for the winter season. And the v-neck sweater and newsboy cap? That's a nice touch too. Just tighten that necktie!

UPTOWN Gentleman- The Winter Scarf

2011-11-08T23:25:00.004-05:00

Burberry

Surely, there exists several key points that can be debated on the subject. There are some that will strongly agree. And then there are others who will adamantly disagree. Nevertheless, it has been moderately accepted that an undetermined number of gentlemen mature at a slow rate, much slower compared to their female counterparts-especially in matters of style. The sartorial maturation process can be slightly sluggish, if not downright nonexistent. As some men were mastering rudimentary tasks like knotting a shoelace, women had long moved past fashion basics and were reinforcing their wardrobes with sharp, sophisticated accessories. Now, it is your turn. First up: the winter scarf. Get it. Learn it. And then rock it with confidence.

Want to know what type of winter scarf you should have, and how you should wear it? Head over UPTOWN and check out my article HERE!

Rescue My Son- Mock Job Interview

2011-11-05T22:35:00.005-04:00

Far too often, the young African American male has to grapple with cruel, duel circumstances of abandonment. In the African American community, more times often than not, he has to cope with the reality of having an absentee father. In a fatherly, parental sense; he has been negligently abandoned. Recognizing whatever issues that said child may develop, society then assigns the label of socially and intellectually damaged, and he is thus abandoned again. He is handicapped almost from the beginning. Now, I'm not a firm believer in segregating a child in "special" classes, nor heavily medicating them to "control" their behavior. Sure, there are exceptions to the rule that warrant such measures. However, sometimes I believe such measures are simply a prescription to treat the symptoms and not address the underlying cause.

And so a kid progresses through life until he is an adult; until he is ultimately labeled as a DBR black man, or damaged beyond repair black man to those unfamiliar with the acronym. Pretty harsh right? And get this: this is a label thrown around by some African American women who feel that the adult black male is destroying the black community and the black woman. Well, maybe not all of us, but enough of us to outweigh the positive brothers out there.

However, what is never really addressed is that man was once a child. And somewhere along the maturation process, basics and fundamentals were lost in translation. You see, it is easy to slap a DBR label on someone and keep it moving. But it is another thing to recognize a problem and try to put forth positive, constructive solutions. Which brings me to my day today. Today, I participated in a mock job interview exercise at Rescue My Son, which is an outreach program for at-risk minority males in the Detroit area. Now, we were "interviewing" 9-16 year olds, but it was a really productive session. Prior to the interviews, we watched a video titled Daddy Hunger, which was a video about the prevalence of young black males growing up without a father. After the video, the young men were asked if they missed their father and if they wanted them to be in the household. Every young man raised his hand.

And when you look into their eyes, one can recognize a yearning and thirst for guidance. These kids just don't emerge from the womb ready to wage havoc upon society. No, there is a reason for everything. The key is we have to teach these kids early before change becomes too difficult for them at a later age. And really, they WANT to learn and do better. I specifically asked each child I interviewed what they felt they needed to do to become a better person/candidate for the "job". And in almost all the cases, they WANTED to do better in school. They WANTED to work on their anger. They WANTED to stop getting into trouble at school. They WANTED to work on their relationship with their mothers. Even after being abandoned, one kid still wanted to find and reconnect with his father. I could look in his eyes and see something was missing. He was missing that fatherly love.

So, here is the thing gentlemen. The WANT is there. As men, we have to step up and teach the fundamentals and basics. Today was a brief lesson in things a young man should do-especially on a job interview. Look a man in the eye. Stand up straight. Speak clearly, loudly, and concisely. Deliver a firm handshake. Have faith and confidence in yourself. Just the basics-basics that we as older gentlemen take for granted and then wonder why a young knucklehead can't do the same. Well, if he was absent of guidance, he cannot do better if he does not know better. It is paramount that we make him know better. We have to offer our love, time, and faith in them if we want them to succeed. We cannot just sit back and complain. Get up and do something about it! Like...now!

Adding To The Collection

2011-11-04T13:01:00.004-04:00

Burberry Woven Silk Necktie

I have to be totally honest, my extensive necktie collection is only as such because I have been the beneficiary of fortuitous timing. A few days ago, I was the recipient of a challenging, strenuous day at work. After such days, I usually travel to the shopping mall to mentally decompress; not necessarily shopping-just relaxing as I peruse various neckties and pocket squares. So, I am looking through some neckties on sale and I spot a Burberry in a dark plum hue. Curious, I inspected the price-tag to see what it was selling at-$36.00! Now, this is a necktie that usually retails for $145.00 and it rarely goes on a deep discount like this-at least not in a regular department store.

I cautiously approached the salesperson at the counter to verify that was the correct price. It was. Here was the story: that particular necktie was placed on sale, but it was never removed from the regularly priced merchandise. And it just sat there. The computer recognized that it wasn't selling (because it hadn't been pulled) and kept discounting the price. By the time staff recognized that it should be on sales shelf, it had been marked all the way down to $36.00. It reached the sales shelf at approximately 3:30 pm; I got to the mall a few hours before closing around 7:00 pm. And there it was. Ready to be snatched up eagerly by a gentleman who had been beat down all day at work. Good way to end the day.

Wedding Cashers

2011-11-01T20:36:00.007-04:00

Now, usually I don't delve into the abyss of pop culture discourse, but today I am going to make an exception. No worries, this soapbox commentary won't monopolize too much of your time. As you may know by now, or perhaps not, Kim Kardashian filed for divorce a mere 72 days after her nuptials. After "careful consideration" she has decided to call it quits with soon-to-be ex Kris Humphries. I'm sorry...shouldn't the "careful consideration" precede walking down the aisle? Just asking. Is this what marriage has become nowadays? Well, at least for some celebrity marriages, and sadly for some regulars folks too. This has become the marriage blueprint of the current day. Things don't work out as planned, get out quick. And in some cases it is warranted. In other cases...not so much.

Now, for years politicians have expertly utilized the issue of same sex marriage to strike fear in the hearts of Christian conservatives, and to be quite honest-even some liberals. Because, everyone understands that the sanctity of marriage should be preserved, and the concept of same sex marriage blows that sanctity to kingdom come. But can I make an astute observation here? Seems like heterosexuals have been doing a great job at violating that sanctity themselves. Yes, sly politicians have used the fear of same sex marriage as a political tool to manipulate certain voting constituencies, transforming homosexuals into marital boogeymen who want to wreck havoc on that sacred covenant. However, maybe it is time we be truthful. Marriage has fallen victim to trivialization and monetization; same sex marriage cannot be blamed for that. No, we can thank the increasing superficiality of our society for that reality. I wonder when the next celebrity wedding is going to take place.

UPTOWN Gentleman: Cashmere Thoughts

2011-10-31T21:03:00.004-04:00

Brooks Brothers

In an effort to maintain a respectable level of masculinity, your average gentleman tends to shy away from attire that may be deemed too delicate or effeminate. And that is perfectly fine if that is your preference and those are your rules. However, please allow me to introduce what should be a notable exception to your rules: cashmere. The elegant epitome of cold weather refinement, this majestic offering from the Kashmir goat should definitely enjoy extended residency in your closet. If you are purchasing cashmere for the first time, your first encounter will probably involve some variety of winter sweater. Here are few selections you should have in your dresser drawer and how you should be wearing them...

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Sunday's Best

2011-10-30T14:47:00.004-04:00

"But this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before."

Philippians 3 :13

The past is indeed the past; time never to be experienced again. And that is a reality that should never be lost on a gentleman. Sure, he must demonstrate the intelligence to glean valuable lessons from yesterday, but he must also exhibit the wisdom to utilize those lessons to fashion his future. Far too many gentlemen dwell within the confines of their own history of failures. Far too much time and energy is allocated to a time period that can never be recovered. Greatness can never be achieved this way. Understand that each moment you spend in your past is a moment you consciously surrender to circumstances that cannot be augmented or manipulated. Time for a change. Today, your focus is zeroed in on a positive progression toward the future. Growth is your objective. You consult your past only for productive, helpful advice. The past is indeed the past. And soon, your past will be just as bright as your future.

Black Thought

2011-10-29T20:59:00.004-04:00

"Racism is not an excuse to not do the best you can."

Arthur Ashe

I am not naive to believe that racism does not have negative, debilitating influences on minorities in today's society. However, I am also not naive to believe that said racism should be utilized as a societal crutch either. A gentleman should never allow the pervasive, malignant nature of racism to cripple his ability to achieve to absolute best that he can achieve. His resolve should be steeled with the knowledge that others before him faced greater challenges, yet in the face of seemingly insurmountable adversity, they summoned the unflinching courage to confront racism and emerge victorious. Your opportunities are plentiful. And when opportunities are scant; make an opportunity for yourself. And if racism or prejudice threaten your opportunities or your personal progression, it is your responsibility to focus your determination and realize your future greatness. So, what are you waiting on?

Standard Recommendations- The Hunter Boot

2011-10-28T21:28:00.004-04:00

Hunter

So, I possess a nasty little habit that I am not particularly proud of: I have small penchant for procrastination sometimes, especially when it concerns shopping. Now, I have been planning to purchase a solid pair of Hunter boots for nearly a year and maybe even longer. The winter weather here in Michigan can be absolutely brutal on a gentleman's oxfords. And so, it has been my intention to invest in a winter boot that can withstand the snow, slush, salt, and dirt that the winter months will certainly bring. Alas, my due diligence has been woefully inadequate. Not this time. Just the other day, I heard a future forecast that predicted a few wet snowflakes in the weeks to come. Not totally surrendering to a full panic, I still appreciated the gravity of impending seasonal snowfall, therefore, preemptive measures were drawn. The pair shown above was located at Saks Fifth Avenue, and so the plan is to have these bad boys arriving to my doorstep before the week is over. This vulcanized rubber boot will offer all the protection I need from rock salt or dirty slush splattering up on my trouser cuffs. I'll be opting for the short boot version, as the tall boot variety may be a touch too much. Besides, I'm only navigating snowy terrain, not swampy marshes.

Gent Hint- Knotting The Winter Scarf

2011-10-27T00:45:00.009-04:00

It is definitely not a secret that I am not that big on trends. Now, some trends are indeed stylish, and some have gone on to become permanent fixtures in a gentleman's fashion repertoire. However, those moments seems scant compared to the myriad of trend abominations that quickly spread throughout the world of men's style. Fundamentally sound concepts are reinvented and the results are sometimes quite laughable. Take the scarf for instance. A gentleman only requires but a few methods to properly knot one. Yet perhaps a few years ago, gentlemen everywhere decided to start emulating the knotting technique of his female counterpart. Whimsically, loosely draped around his neck in environments that didn't even require one to be worn, he looked slightly foolish. Cease the silliness and knot the thing like a man who is trying to protect himself from the elements-not guy a strutting down an imaginary catwalk. Check out this video to see how it is done.

Jack Black Balm Squad

2011-10-24T23:11:00.003-04:00

Here in Michigan, I think we have enjoyed the last remnants of Summer 2011. See you next year buddy. And so, the chilly temperatures that we all know and love have already began to make itself at home. And soon enough, the dry frigid winter air will begin to rob a gentleman's skin of essential moisture. Sure, a gentleman will readily equip himself with moisturizing body lotions, but sometimes a key area is neglected-the lips. Be honest, how many lips have you noticed in the winter that look that they've just enjoyed some delicious powdered donuts? You need a lip balm. But the problem with most lip balms, in my humble opinion, is that they are just too waxy. It clumps too much, and the application isn't really smooth. Which is why I prefer Vaseline petroleum jelly to handle the job. However, Vaseline prevents moisture from escaping, it doesn't necessarily penetrate the lips to promote skin health.

To my pleasant surprise, a few weeks ago I received an e-mail endorsing a lip balm from Jack Black. Now, I have used Jack Black in the past, and they have a great array of grooming products. Would their offering mirror their waxy, clumpy counterparts; or would this lip balm deliver a soothing, moisturizing experience for the lips? Here is what Jack Black had to say:

"Jack Black is proudly introducing the latest collection of bestselling balms with two new flavors. This super troupe of the famous, moisturizing, SPF 25 balms keep lips healthy and protected all year long. With classic Natural Mint & Shea Butter, Lemon & Chamomile, and new limited editions: Shea Butter & Vitamin E and Mango & Mandarin; Balm Squad Lip Quad makes the ultimate stocking stuffer- guaranteed to keep lips looking and feeling good. Exclusively for the holiday season of 2011, this limited edition set contains four full-size tubes of the award winning lip balm."

The verdict? This lip balm does not disappoint at all. No waxy, dried out texture with this lip balm. No sticky feeling that leaves the lips with a high gloss shine. No gentleman wants to look like he is wearing lipstick. This is what I discovered: the Natural Mint & Shea Butter provides a cooling, refreshing revitalization to the lips. The Lemon & Chamomile delivers a burst of citrus nourishment. The Mango & Mandarin has calming sweetness that alleviates dryness. And the Shea Butter & Vitamin E has a creamy texture that heals a gentleman's chapped lips. This lip balm set is the business. I even caught my wife sneaking into my stash and applying it to her own lips. Do you need any more evidence?

Price: $25.00

Availability: Jack Black Balm Squad Lip Quad is available at Neiman Marcus, Nordstrom, Sephora, Saks Fifth Avenue, Bloomingdale's, and getjackblack.com

Sunday's Best

2011-10-23T18:22:00.004-04:00

"Let us therefore come boldly unto the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need."

Hebrews 4:16

Without a doubt, we are living in some challenging times. Sometimes, you don't even want to tune in for your nightly news program on the television. Just more depressing news. Is there any wonder why we have the plethora of commercials advertising antidepressants? During this challenging period, it is easy to fall into selfish behavior. Not purposely, but looking after one's interests become a top priority. It is important to be mindful of this reality: the same mercy that you seek from Him should also be extended to your fellow man. Charity and benevolence is the type of behavior that you should be exhibiting, not greed or malevolence. The world would be a much better place if we all did the former.

The Standard #54

2011-10-21T21:57:00.003-04:00

A successful gentleman understands that he does not approach life insufficiently prepared for what might arise. He has a carefully devised strategy. He has meticulously formulated a plan for his future. The better the preparation, the better the ability to handle adversity. No crisis or dilemma will seem insurmountable. Think about it: A coach does not haphazardly send his players into a game without a game plan. Even football audibles, though deviating from an original set play, have a purpose. Sure, a play may be broken, but an intelligent player makes the necessary adjustments and adaptations. Life will not perfectly proceed as you might imagine. A gentleman will encounter setbacks. A gentleman might face innumerable obstacles. Nevertheless, a smart gentleman has a mission. He has a vision. He has a plan. He even has a contingency plan even when the original plan doesn't go according to plan. He has strategically placed himself in position for optimal reward. You can do the same-if you have a game plan. So, do you have one?

Style & Substance- Phineas Cole

2011-10-20T21:56:00.004-04:00

Phineas Cole

Sure, there appears to be a lot things going on here. The bold check. The striped dress shirt. The floral pocket square. The medallion necktie. But don't be alarmed. What we have here before us is a symphony of sartorial sophistication; a visual harmony of hue and pattern. Every element blends effortlessly into one another-resulting in a presentation that communicates creative thought and cool confidence. The key to pulling this look off? The presence of purple hues resonating within the suit jacket, dress shirt, and necktie. The pocket square provides a contrast, if only slightly, as its brown tint captures the shades of brown in the suit jacket. This is style. Perhaps a little too loud for some gentlemen, but stylish nonetheless. This look can only be achieved through trial and error. So, don't be afraid to make a few mistakes along the way. Mistakes are bound to be made when a gentleman undertakes some experimentation in his closet. No worries. As time proceeds, your eye will sharpen and your skills will be honed. And when you're ready-look out!

Kevin Stewart- The Natural

2011-10-19T00:16:00.006-04:00

Kevin Stewart for Stylelikeu.com from StyleLikeU on Vimeo.

Staying true to his character, a gentleman's personal style is never forced, nor is it a visual tool that is utilized to elicit fake attention. No, true style is an intimate extension of a gentleman's identity. It's not difficult to spot a man who owns a presentation that is unique to his own individual. He is relaxed. He is confident. He doesn't bother with trying to be stylish-he just is. Which is why I appreciate the attire of a gentleman such as Kevin Stewart. It demonstrates an imagination that is wholly his own. You may have spotted him in Esquire, Ebony, and more recently The Esquire Big Black Book Fall/Winter 2011 edition. The creative force behind Roger Charles New York is in high demand nowadays. And he should be. Check this great video directed by Style Like U, and check out the great article HERE. You will be glad you did.

UPTOWN Gentleman: Rakish Behavior

2011-10-18T23:16:00.005-04:00

Paul Smith

Swagger. Talk about a seriously squandered opportunity to inject some life into the world of personal dress for the contemporary gentleman. Alas, swagger has met a sudden, but expected demise. Perhaps it was the likely case of too much swagger, far too fast. We can all thank aging playboys trying to reclaim past glory and clueless adolescents for that reality. Yes, swagger died a long time ago. And so with crafty, coordinated precision; popular men’s magazines have begun to introduce an alternative adjective to describe a gentleman’s demeanor, one that borders on rogue pretension. Thumbing through our favorite magazines, we were introduced to a new character-the rake. He was a gent with a hint of measured affectation. Structured flamboyance. Dandy charisma. He wore his clothes with nonchalant sophistication, and he looked good. Here is how to dress like him.

Check me out over at UPTOWN Magazine for the remainder of my latest UPTOWN offering.

Gent Hints- Getting Creative

2011-10-17T22:02:00.008-04:00

The Tie Bar

So, after my post about Kanye West rocking a woman's blouse, I stated that a gentleman could flex some creative muscle without sacrificing his sartorial dignity. Now, for those gentlemen who wouldn't mind being a little imaginative with their attire, I am going to try and post a little more about how that can be accomplished-without looking like Madea from a Tyler Perry movie. My creative approach to dressing addresses two key areas of a gentleman's attire: pattern and color. So, even if you are not comfortable wearing certain articles of clothing, say, an ascot or shawl collar sweater, capitalizing on clever utilization of color & pattern can produce maximum reward.

Take the pocket square pictured above. I spotted this handsome square at The Tie Bar, and I instantly knew I would add it to my collection. The exaggerated check is confidently pronounced without being too garish. And the chocolate hue is attention grabbing without being too obnoxious. Even if a gentleman's outfit is relatively sedate, a pocket square like this is enough to make your presentation much more interesting. No blouse needed, and it will only set you back $8.00 plus shipping and handling. I am ordering mine today-along with a few more.

Moving To Wordpress

2011-10-15T18:33:00.008-04:00

So, I have decided to make that move. After carefully weighing all the pros and cons, I have decided to take my talents to Wordpress. Thanks for the catchphrase Lebron. So, I have brainstorming new concepts for my eventual Wordpress site. I don't believe the redesign will be too dramatic for current readers. Hopefully, everyone will be satisfied with the new look. Wordpress has so many cool features that are unavailable here on Blogger. So, I am really excited about the migration. However, I do feel a little trepidation about this new venture.

Redirecting traffic to my new site is a major concern. Truthfully, I am not that much of a technology person. So, I am unsure how long it will take search engines, namely Google, to start recognizing my new site as The Gentlemen's Standard. I am also concerned about current visitors finding the new location. I still have business cards with the blogspot address! Sure, I can place a "We've Moved" post to redirect traffic over time. I just want a more seamless transition. Nevertheless, I am currently trying to work those kinks out, and probably giving my friends and Internet friends headaches with my questions in the process. And with that, I am probably 3-4 months away from relaunch. A lot of content has to be written, imported, and revised. Here is hoping for the best.

Reality Fashion Check

2011-10-13T00:12:00.009-04:00

Honestly, I must have missed the confidential memorandum delivered a few months after Kanye West showed up at a fashion show rocking a woman's blouse. Yes, somehow that one escaped my usually attentive eye. So, just how viable is this trend in the stylish world of dapper gentlemen? My instinct tells me not much. This may seem odd for me to say, but fashion has always been a little silly to me. And this is what this trend is-silly fashion. Yes, I have read the endorsements. Yes, I have read the claims. Claims that state a gentleman's wardrobe is limited, therefore experimentation with wearing women's fashion is refreshingly creative. I have thoughtfully entertained these assertions, and I have arrived at a simple conclusion: the entire concept is utterly foolish.

To think that a gentleman's style options are restricted communicates two things: 1) You don't fully understand men's style, so you make broad assumptions. 2) You lack true creativity so you resort to gimmicks to appear "stylish". Which is why I don't really respect celebrity fashion. Too many gimmicks. Too many people picking out your clothes for you. I have much more respect for a gentleman that educates himself a little, ventures out to purchase his own clothing, and coordinates various elements on his own. Celebrity and runway fashion is not grounded in reality-not to the average gentleman.

But I digress, back to wearing women's clothing. How realistic is that to the average gentleman? I asked my wife today what if I just walked into her closet and asked to wear one of her blouses. She looked at me puzzled and started to laugh. Trading clothes with your mother, sister, or girlfriend seemed more logical. But trading clothes with your man? Going to mall and picking out woman's clothes...with your guy? So,what say the audience: are you down with rocking your woman's clothes or are you comfortable with your man rocking your blouse to work?

Style & Substance- Paul Stuart Wool/Silk Pocket Square

2011-10-12T00:34:00.005-04:00

Paul Stuart

I cannot believe I am about to admit this to the reading audience, but I think this Paul Stuart pocket square is unbelievably stunning. Yes, it has a fleet of adorable little pheasants embroidered into its wool fabric. And yes, you may recall my previous repudiation of the utterly conservative animal print motif. Nevertheless, this unique pocket square captured my full and complete attention. Why the sudden reversal of sartorial taste? Perhaps I can blame it on the rogue strand of gray hair I discovered in my beard a few weeks ago, or maybe the few gray hairs I found sprouting on my noggin. Whatever the case may be, it is obvious my prejudice of small creatures parading around on certain selections of my clothing has softened. Hell, the other day, I even saw a wool necktie emblazoned with flying ducks begging me to take it home. What is happening to me!

Style & Substance- Salvatore Ferragamo Monk Strap

2011-10-10T21:41:00.009-04:00

Salvatore Ferragamo

From meager beginnings, I must admit that I have been successful with constructing an extensive shoe collection. For my own requirements, I have amassed a collection that suits nearly every aspect of my life. When certain situations arise that call for a particular piece of footwear to be worn, I pretty much have covered all my bases. However, there is one particular shoe that I have not added to my squadron cap toes and wingtips-the monk strap. Much like the one pictured above, I would love to have a pair, or maybe a few pair, in my closet. This is the type of shoe that possesses the ability to satisfy both a business casual and business setting. And speaking of the monk strap pictured, I love the sleek blend of traditional calfskin leather and smooth suede. It makes for a handsome visual, especially with the contrasting color. This is a great fall shoe Hopefully, maybe I'll be able to score a pair before the snowflakes begin their assault here Michigan...hopefully.

Black Thought

2011-10-07T20:59:00.003-04:00

"Let us realize too that even we disenfranchised have our duties."

W.E.B. DuBois

Responsibility. Every gentleman owns a select portion of this in his community. Regardless of his limiting socioeconomic circumstances, a gentleman must deliver the very best of his talents for the improvement of his neighborhood. I definitely understand that this may be difficult for some gentlemen. One may feel that their status in society does not meet acceptable or suitable standards. However, I say to those individuals who may feel as if life has dealt a cruel poker hand; you still have much to offer. Do not sit idle and allow your gifts to waste and rot. Your community patiently awaits your arrival. Waiting for the "right" time when everything is correct in the world is not an option. What if the "right" time never arrives? The only right time is right now. Do not hesitate. Do not second guess. You are stronger, more intelligent, and more talented than you might realize; it is your duty to improve the environment around you. You possess the necessary tools to make a difference. Act now!

Breathe Again

2011-10-06T14:28:00.008-04:00

Esquire Big Black Book 2011

Exquisite pictorial after each exquisite pictorial, my fingers carefully advanced each glossy page. Might the rumors be actually rooted in truth? For months now, I have heard or read that the gentleman's silhouette was relaxing. The constrictive climate that have imprisoned wayward gentlemen within their clothing for years now seemed to be loosening its clench. Taking their cue from ultra-thin models outfitted in impossibly snug attire, impressionable gents attempted to squeeze their humanity into clothing that threatened proper blood circulation. Others unknowingly purchased their favorite brands, oblivious to the fact that their trusted labels had done away with what they considered "excess" fabric. Relax. You can start to breathe easy again-literally. Because, if what I saw in the current Esquire Big Black Book Fall/Winter edition is a sign of things to come, gentlemen everywhere can eat heartily again, absent the threat of a button turning into a dangerous projectile once their stomach was satisfied. You can eat and expand in peace men. Disclaimer: this is not an excuse to go on a gluttonous food rampage-the clothing isn't that baggy. However, rejoice that men's clothing is becoming a little looser, which means it should be just right-given the fact that we have already explored the extremes of skinny fit. I think we all can breathe a collective sigh of relief. Much deserved.

Standard Recommendations- Chaps Wool Flannel

2011-10-03T13:25:00.010-04:00

Kohl's Wool Flannel Suit

Assembling an elegant wardrobe is more about well-thought, intelligent selections than merely purchasing the most expensive item on the shelf. For example, I have searching for a great pair of wool flannel trousers to incorporate into my fall & winter clothing rotation. Approximately one week ago, I was able to locate a fantastic pair by Hart Schaffner Marx. However, the accompanying price-tag of $175.00 administered a nasty dose of reality to any aspirations of adding those to my closet. Undeterred, I continued my search and happened to discover a nice pair at...wait for it...Kohl's. That is correct-Kohl's. Yes my fellow gentlemen, I occasionally shop at your favorite department store chain with the seemingly perpetual sales event. There is no shame to the sartorial game. It is always wise to take advantage of a sale-even when it is at Kohls.

And fortuitous enough for me, my visit coincided with one of those sales. Sold as separates, I was able to score a pair of wool flannel pairs for roughly $56.00-courtesy of Chaps. They usually retail for $100.00. The suit jacket was also available. It regularly retails for $220.00, but it was marked down to a cool $115.00. If I was the owner of a Kohl's coupon, I would have been able to purchase them even cheaper. The flannel is a rich medium gray, the weight is decent, and the texture bears a fine softness. It can be the perfect workhorse in your wardrobe if you so choose it to be. So, if you are in the market for a sturdy, reliable pair of gray flannel trousers for the fall/winter season, I would strongly advise checking out your nearby Kohl's department store-during a sale of course!

The Standard #34

2011-09-30T15:36:00.007-04:00

As sophisticated gentlemen of color, it is paramount that we allow our stylish presentation to lead by example. We just can't dictate that a young gentleman pull his trousers up when our presentation is just as disheveled and unkempt. Our sartorial game needs to be raised to a level that we ourselves demand. It is incumbent upon the elder gent to put forth an elegant image worth admiring and emulating. We cannot cast chastisement and judgment without simultaneously offering instructions guided by wisdom and knowledge. And we better look good doing it. Let us face the facts, no one is going to take sartorial advice from you if your appearance looks like crap. Your oxfords better be polished. That necktie better be dimpled. And for crying out loud, ensure that your own pants are pulled up to a reasonable height. Act your age. Dress your age. Trust me, no young gentleman will listen to or follow your advice if you are dressed like Soulja Boy. And they shouldn't.

Gent Hints- Do Your Research

2011-09-29T15:42:00.003-04:00

Unquestionably, the current job market is still uncomfortably tight. Gone are the days of enjoying multiple job opportunities upon graduating from college. No, in today's climate, what we have is an intense battle royal amongst job seekers, and only the strongest shall be the sole survivor. So, how can a gentleman increase his chances of gaining employment once the dust has settled? Sure, your resume is pristine. Your employment history is fluid and consistent. Even your interview attire is flawless. However, you and a myriad of other hopefuls neglect a key area in your interview preparation: researching the company. Beyond the impeccable suit, the diligent work ethic, and esteemed job accolades; your potential employer wants to see a candidate totally engaged-in their company.

As a job candidate, it is your responsibility to know the company you are applying to. It is your responsibility to understand the position, to understand the market that the company exists in. It is your responsibility to thoughtfully articulate why you belong and how the company will benefit from your expertise. Arrive armed with questions. Be authentic. Don't just cite facts you read off their website the night before. Do your research. You need to walk into that interview as if you have worked there for years. Allow yourself adequate time to familiarize with your future employer. The more prepared you are, the better your odds of receiving the coveted callback. We're sure it's coming shortly.

My President Is Black...Now What?

2011-09-28T13:03:00.007-04:00

It wasn't that long ago that I was driving through a Jewish neighborhood with my brother-in-law when I spotted a humongous community center. It was quite a handsome building. And it wasn't the only one we saw during our drive. I wishfully remarked that maybe Detroit could start erecting such community centers in the inner city. With a serious face, my brother-in-law bluntly stated that black folks simply don't have a spirit of community anymore, therefore, it would never happen. We don't invest in our neighborhoods like that. Fast forward some months later to my visit to my old neighborhood. Looking at the trash, unkempt lawns, and burned out buildings-was he correct in his assessment?

And then I thought about my visits to Rescue My Son. The proprietor of this mentoring service took his own money, bought a house, and turned it into a mini-recreation center. Recently, they enacted an initiative that called upon parents to donate $5.00 per week to assist with the upkeep of the house. I mean...someone still has to pay the mortgage and utilities correct? This gentleman isn't tremendously wealthy, he only desired to do something positive in the community. However, he soon found himself chasing down parents who didn't want to commit to a meager $5.00 per week. The mentoring program is free. And all of us mentors that visit don't get paid. We do it because we want to give back. Now, utilizing the program, you would think parents would be grateful and wouldn't mind at least donating what they could. Nope. Again, was my brother-in-law right in his assessment.

So, as some sections of black community continue to criticize President Barack Obama about the absence of a "black agenda", I have to seriously wonder: what are we doing for ourselves? Sure, some criticisms are valid. Nevertheless, and with all due respect to Dr. Cornel West & Tavis Smiley, poverty has been around for decades in the black community. Where was the "poverty bus" during the Reagan, Clinton, and Bush administrations? Just asking. Should we be just as critical of black wealth that has departed from inner cities never to return? Is it asking too much of our entertainers, sports figures, or even extremely wealthy executives to give back And yes, I understand that there is an entrepreneurial spirit that runs throughout the celebrity community, but I am talking about something larger than the occasional charity basketball event.

Seriously, if we demand policy aimed directly towards the benefit of African Americans, shouldn't we demand some action from our black elite as well? Besides, wouldn't the private sector be the path of least resistance. Think about it, President Obama may want to push a bill, but he still needs the approval of Congress to get anything passed. And from the climate of the past three years, what are the odds that any bill will pass cleanly, especially when it involves assisting minorities in the inner city? However, what is stopping an individual in the private sector from opening some grocery stores stocked with fresh produce or cultivating abandoned playgrounds and transforming them into centers for positive recreation. It seems there is enough wealth to start failed record labels and clothing lines. Enough wealth to open up yet another nightclub. Enough wealth to own multiple luxury vehicles and a few houses.

But who am I to tell an individual how to invest their money? All I know is there are wealthy people in other races that own loads of luxury items. Yet, they always find a way to give back to their community. They always find a way to maintain the dignity of their neighborhoods. They always find a way. Look, I am not saying President Obama is above any and all criticism. I am just wondering when are some individuals going to start putting in some work themselves and stop waiting for someone to do it for them. No matter how big or small, someone can do something. Don't mind me. I'm just venting. I'm sure others are frustrated too. I'm just not sure if anyone is listening.

UPTOWN Gentleman: The Polished Pea Coat

2011-09-26T16:16:00.002-04:00

Burberry

Without question, the contemporary gentleman owes a small debt of gratitude to the United States and British navy of the 19th century. The gift that is the pea coat offers a fortuitous combination of fashion and function. Although, I sincerely doubt military personnel were overly concerned with what was stylish at the time, more pressing issues like defending one’s country took top priority. Nevertheless, this staple of the high seas soon gravitated to dry land, and gentlemen everywhere were reaping the benefits of cold weather insulation. Sturdy double-breasted front. Generous lapels. Heavy woolen fabric. All the characteristics of a coat you need to stay warm. And so with absolute, unforgiving certainty-winter will be upon your doorstep; it would behoove you add a pea coat to your coalition of winter coats. Here is what your pea coat should look like this season.

So, that is the introduction from my online article last week. I have been quite negligent as of late; I have fallen seriously behind in my UPTOWN updates. I also need to update the side bar as well. That is something I am going to have to squeeze in sometime in the future. Until, check the remainder of my take on this year's pea coat HERE. Thanks again for reading.

Am I Troy Davis?

2011-09-22T07:20:00.008-04:00

I don't want to assign myself too much credit, but I would like to think that I am an affable, even-tempered kind of gentleman. However, on certain occasions I can be wickedly cynical, sometimes even deeply pessimistic about this world we live in. It's extremely difficult not to. I would probably assume by now everyone is familiar with the Troy Davis case and his execution last night. Davis was convicted of murdering a police officer in Savannah, Georgia back in 1989.

Now, despite some questionable evidence, retracted testimonies from several witnesses, and Davis's own insistence that he was innocent; Davis was put to death late last evening after years of appeals and last minute efforts to overturn his conviction. Immediately after the execution, Facebook and Twitter exploded with cries of injustice and anger. A running theme that I saw in various places was the tag-line: I Am Troy Davis. But, I have to seriously ask, am I Troy Davis?

Now, I understand today people are going to analyze the death penalty and how justice seems to unfairly judge African American males in the legal system. However, am I Troy Davis? So, this is where the cynical side of me kicks in. No, I am not Troy Davis. Sorry, I have seen this movie before. And the ending remains the same. An injustice or tragedy involving a person of color inflames the emotions of many across the nation. Protests are held. Marches are commenced. Activists take to Facebook and Twitter to pontificate and give their expert analysis. And then after a few days...it all goes away. After a week or so, we are no longer Troy Davis, we are again the same individual who never got involved in social or political issues pre-Troy Davis.

This may not be popular to say, but individuals get angry and climb atop their sanctimonious soapbox to expound on the evils of society, the justice system-and they return to their community and do absolutely nothing. Nothing. Sure, it may seem cool to say, "Hey, I am Troy Davis." And I understand the sentiment. Because, well, I guess we all could find ourselves in a precarious situation where our innocence is in question. But truthfully, I'm just not that comfortable symbolically assigning myself the identity of a black male on death row. No, I am not Troy Davis, rather, I am just Glen Antoine Palmer. I'm just a regular gentleman who works hard, attends church, and mentors young black young in the Detroit community.

So, if you really want to be "Troy Davis", I challenge you to start doing something. Was this case tragic? To some, yes. In my humble opinion, there was enough reasonable doubt to warrant a new trial. So, to some, an innocent man was murdered last night. But let us not forget that innocent blood is spilled everyday by individuals who remain at large, and in certain communities we are encouraged not to cooperate with law to bring justice for that innocent blood.

I follow a gentleman on Twitter known as Raw Dawg Buffalo. He walks the walks, and he talks the talk. Meaning he is truly an activist for social, political, and economic enlightenment for people of color. He tweeted something interesting last week. He used the term "silent genocide." He went on to say how crime, poverty, unemployment, lack of health care, and an ineffective educational system is slowing killing people of color. And a majority of folks sit idly by as it is happening.

Well, until a Troy Davis case comes along and then we are all legal scholars. We are all social , political activists. We are all Troy Davis. Sadly, the news cycle is fickle. And in a week Troy Davis will be a memory and people will be back to their normal lives-whatever normal is. Our children will continue to languish in a poor educational system. Unemployment will still be high. Black on black crime will still be high. Our young black women will still be dying of AIDS at a higher rate than any other racial demographic. The world crumbles and we are oblivious, or ambivalent to the reality.

Because in the coming months, we will be analyzing more pressing matters. Like what will Jay Z and Beyonce name their child, what will happen on the next Basketball Wives, and when will Lil Wayne release The Carter V. You want to prove me wrong. Well, in the words of Cee-Lo Green from his Goodie Mob days; you need to get up, get out, and do something.

The Roots- You Got Me

2011-09-20T23:40:00.002-04:00

To roughly quote Common, I used to love her-hip hop that is. Before every video took place at the local strip club or rented mansion for the weekend, I remember when hip hop videos were creative. Visually entertaining. Lyrically on point. Don't worry, I am not going to launch into an unbridled, profanity laced tirade. No, I am just going to post a favorite song and video of mine: You Got Me from the legendary Roots crew-their break out single from Things Fall Apart. I still listen to that CD today. Classic.

Confusion

2011-09-16T20:42:00.005-04:00

This curious piece of amateur photography was delivered directly to my inbox a few days ago. After a brief moment of confusion and amusement, I was content with moving on with the rest of my week. However, I figured maybe the audience might like to see what happens when creativity goes painfully awry. Here, this gentleman is trying far too hard to be unique. What we have here are a pair homemade capri pants, some black athletic socks, and some brown wingtips. This is wrong on so many levels. Nevertheless, I am only going to point out two fashion felons being committed. First, athletic socks should never...never...be paired with dress shoes. Admittedly, sometimes I favor coordinating unlikely sartorial elements, but this is just disastrous. Athletic socks belong with athletic shoes-period. And the homemade capri pants? If you are not a custom clothier by trade, leave it to the professionals. Besides, I don't think a gentleman should be rocking capri pants in the first place. However, that is another blog post. So, what say the audience about this amalgamation of abomination?

My Block

2011-09-14T12:58:00.007-04:00

It is not uncommon to stroll down a Detroit city block and see an elderly gentleman dutifully maintaining his yard. It is also not uncommon to stroll down that same city block and glance across street; only this time you would probably see a group of young men gathered in the yard doing absolutely nothing. Just recently, I sat on the porch with my mother (she still stays in the city) watching a movie as a group of young just hung out on the curb. Some were conducting various "transactions" with occasional cars that made brief stops. Some were just sitting and enjoying an adult beverage. It was a Sunday afternoon.

About a week ago, I paid a visit to my old neighborhood right off Grand River between Joy and West Grand Boulevard. My house is no longer there. Neither are the adjacent houses to the right and the left. Five houses once stood in what is now a vacant field overrun with weeds and trash. And one more house is ready to join the others, as it is burned out and marred with graffiti. It is deeply saddening to see my old block in such disrepair. Trash is strewn up and down the block. Lawns are horrendously unkempt. Houses are falling apart. And then I am struck with a horrible feeling. Poverty can breed dependency. Dependency can breed complacency. Complacency breeds non-productivity. Non-productivity breeds Kimberly Street Detroit, Michigan.

AXE Chocolate Mousse

2011-09-13T15:57:00.003-04:00

Okay, even though the contest has come to a close. AXE would still like for you to celebrate International Chocolate Day by preparing a delicious dessert for that special someone. Some of you gentlemen may figure yourselves to be the Alton Brown of your household, or maybe not so much. So, please try not to burn the kitchen down while getting your sexy on. Perhaps letting a professional, your lady, take the reigns is in the best interests of personal safety. Just a suggestion Mr. Flay.

Chocolate mousse ingredients

2 ounce(s) of milk chocolate
4 large egg yolks
1/4 cup(s) sugar
1 pinch(s) salt
2 tablespoon(s) unsweetened cocoa powder
3/4 cup(s) heavy cream

Directions

Prepare for the evening with a hot, refreshing shower using Dark Temptation shower gel.
Then, head to the kitchen and finely chop the milk chocolate and set aside. In a double boiler, whisk yolks, sugar, and salt until sugar has dissolved and mixture is warm to the touch, 2 to 3 minutes. Remove from the heat, and quickly whisk in chopped chocolate until melted and cocoa until smooth (mixture will be thick). Allow mixture to cool.
In a medium bowl, whip cream until soft peaks form. Whisk half of whipped cream into room-temperature chocolate mixture. Gently fold in remaining whipped cream with a rubber spatula. Divide mousse among four serving dishes. Chill at least 2 hours and up to 1 day.
While the mousse is cooling, apply Dark Temptation bodyspray to keep you smelling and feeling great all night long.
Remove mousse from refrigerator 15 minutes before serving and garnish with shaved chocolate.
Serve and enjoy a deliciously delightful evening.

AXE Dark Temptation Giveaway

2011-09-13T00:45:00.003-04:00

So, today is International Chocolate Day and AXE wants to celebrate the occasion with a contest giveaway here at The Gentlemen's Standard. Now, scientific studies have confirmed that there are two things in the world that a sophisticated lady simply cannot resist, and that would be diamonds & chocolate. Well, AXE at least has the gentleman covered in the realm of chocolate. Formulating a scent with rich hints of chocolate, amber, and red peppercorn; AXE wants you to smell just as irresistible as the chocolate she craves. So, the first three readers that e-mail their name and address to me will receive an AXE package that includes Dark Temptation shower gel, bod spray, and deodorant stick. Once you have received your package, be sure to check back and let the people at AXE know what you thought about Dark Temptation. Hurry up, we all know how much guys fancy themselves irresistible. Celebrate International Chocolate Day and e-mail me today!

UPDATE: Well, that didn't take long. The contest ended and the three lucky winners will notified via e-mail. Thanks for all the participation.

UPTOWN Gentlman: Playboy Style

2011-09-12T13:07:00.004-04:00

Synonymous with the radical upheaval that transformed the political & social complexion of American culture, the 1960s were unquestionably a decade of revolutionary change. Similarly influenced by this progressively transforming climate, men’s style commenced a gradual gravitation away from its conservative roots after decades of holding incumbent status. Rebellious youth shunned the dress of the professional establishment, opting instead for a more relaxed and casual form of creative expression. Nevertheless, there were a collective of brave gentlemen who retained some sartorial sanity and decided to maintain their conservative uniform, even as traditional standards became buried beneath bell-bottomed pants and floral sport shirts. And so we arrive at this paradoxical juncture today, approximately half a century later; the modern gentleman is now encouraged to embrace those ostracized, conservative aesthetics in order to be considered stylish. Quite the irony. There is a renaissance going on, a rebirth if you will, that unearths the deliberate uniform of the 1960s and transforms it into something contemporary, cool, and sexy. Being square has come full circle.

So, here is the opening paragraph for my UPTOWN offering that had me up to 2:30 a.m. and right back up at 8:30 a.m. to finish it up. With the tight deadline that was offered to me, I believe I did a good job given the scarcity of time to work with. So, do me a favor and head over to UPTOWN and give it a read HERE and let me know what you think.

Black Thought

2011-09-09T12:59:00.002-04:00

"Let us realize too that even we disenfranchised have our duties."

W.E.B. Du Bois

UPTOWN Gentleman: Fabulous Fall Fabrics

2011-09-08T21:51:00.004-04:00

Phineas Cole Phillip Wool Plaid Sport Jacket $1,487.00

To be perfectly honest with the audience, I am far from a meteorologist, and I am certainly not a leading expert on climate change. Nevertheless, I feel I have some authority (I live in Michigan) to state that we no longer experience four distinct seasons anymore, or at least it feels that way. Summer gradually transforms into winter and eventually winter slowly becomes summer; all with faint glimpses of spring or fall in-between. That being stated, it is going to get cold really soon. Seriously. We going to be looking at Christmas commercials in a few short weeks. Sorry to break the news to you. So, with chilled air fast-approaching, it is only wise that a stylish gentleman insulate himself, literally and figuratively, with some dapper threads that keep him warm when the weather gets frigid out there. Here are five fabrics that belong in your closet this autumn...

Check out my UPTOWN article HERE to find out what autumn fabrics are on my radar. It's getting a little nippy out there.

The Standard #56

2011-09-07T13:12:00.007-04:00

A successful gentleman is also a determined and dedicated gentleman. Sure, there are a myriad of factors that will give rise to varying amounts of success. However, determination and dedication are two character traits that should not be ignored, nor should it be taken for granted. I am going to reveal something today that very few people know about The Gentlemen's Standard. In the three years that I have been blogging and writing, I did so without the assistance of a laptop. That is correct. Only recently I was blessed with a laptop as a gift from my lovely wife. Now, this may not seem like a humongous deal to some, but blogging without the assistance of a laptop is, well, very difficult. Especially when attempting to sustain a pace that drives traffic and attracts a faithful audience.

So, how did I write all this time without one? I guess the old fashioned way. I guess I am just an old fashioned guy. I would write notes to myself pertaining to potential topics. I would memorize potential sentences in my head. I would e-mail myself material to use for future posts. I would then race home to my old desktop (roughly 15 years old) and stay up late cranking out material-sometimes to the chagrin of my wife. So, it has only been in recent months that I have secured a laptop to make my writing easier. Nevertheless, I am definitely proud of my achievements over the past few years, all without the benefits of a mobile computer. All I had was my determination and dedication, along with an old trusty desktop (did I mention slow) to help me along the way. Whatever a gentleman dreams he can do, he must summon the strength and will to bring it to fruition. You can do it. Have faith in God and have faith in yourself; you will be just fine. Determination. Dedication. Master both. I have no doubt you will.

The Standard #45

2011-09-06T16:21:00.003-04:00

The determined gentleman recognizes that his future must never be laid upon the altar of simple chance. If the gentleman has ever been the beneficiary of chance, it is most likely he has smartly positioned himself to gain her favor. He strategically places himself in the path of prosperity. Never entirely dependent on luck, he sets his own course and smartly navigates his way towards success. He does not unwisely sacrifice his fate to the unknown. He goes hard and he leaves absolutely nothing on the table.

Regrets? The gentleman tries his best not to live with them. He never wants to be faced with the unfortunate reality that his effort was lacking and uninspired. Regrets? No. His spirit and mind are at peace because he understands that he puts forth maximum effort. Minimal action is never an option and the concept of "cannot" is never acceptable. Resolute. Resilient. Relentless. The successful gentleman has been rewarded with the blessings of accomplishment because he is diligent and his spiritual faith is unwavering. Leave nothing and maximize the reward. Never rely on chance. Chart your own future and bring your dreams to fruition.

The Playboy Club

2011-09-03T21:23:00.004-04:00

So, I received this e-mail from UPTOWN Magazine early Friday morning. They are currently running an advertisement campaign in conjunction with a new series debuting on NBC called The Playboy Club; perhaps you have seen the commercials. Anyway, UPTOWN was in need of some articles to accompany the campaign online. So, the e-mail I received Friday contained a request for a series of articles coinciding with the first four episodes of the program. Don't worry, the articles are style based and has nothing to do with sexual overtones or Playboy bunnies, I am just covering the style of the 1960s.

The catch: it was a day turnaround. Which meant I had to research, brainstorm, and write an article by the following day. So, I stayed up until 2:30 a.m. writing an article that I completed this morning. No rest for the wicked right ? And today is also my birthday. So, I am slightly tired. Nevertheless, this was a great opportunity to get some exposure. And when an opportunity comes your way, you have to capitalize on it-sleep be damned. I will be sure to post the articles as they are released. Even with less than a day to write material, I was fully satisfied with the results. I hope you enjoy it as well.

Style & Substance- The Turtleneck & Sport Coat

2011-09-01T22:06:00.009-04:00

And almost on cue, Paul Stuart released these stunning photographs of a turtleneck smartly paired with a sport coat. Weren't we just discussing this the other day? I love the irony. What I enjoy most about this combination is the utilization of checked sport coat. A turtleneck will garner enough attention in its own right, so a pronounced check can assist in deflecting some of that. I also love the coordination of heather gray and olive green. I will wager that a significant amount of gentlemen, myself included, would not even fathom coordinating gray and olive. Nonetheless, the execution is utterly flawless, and the inclusion of the pocket square provides the perfect amount of contrast to both. I reckon that I am adding this color duo to the repertoire come autumn. You would be wise to do the same.

Interview: knot by TIFFA

2011-08-31T15:35:00.007-04:00

So, as I stated a few blog posts ago, I have been trading e-mails with the creative director for knot by TIFFA, Tiffany Rogers. And after a month of correspondence, I am happy to present to the audience a great interview that picks the creative mind behind these colorful, whimsical bow ties. A contemporary fusion of style and music, knot by TIFFA strives to provide the modern gentleman with a uniquely varied selection of bow ties to address his eclectic tastes. They are not for the gentleman that wants to fly under the radar. No. He possesses some peacock flavor and he does not mind displaying it proudly. So,enjoy the read and please pay a visit to knot by TIFFA to see what all this fashionable fun is all about!

Question: How difficult was it starting your own business and what obstacles have you faced since its inception?

Answer: I would have to say that starting is not the difficult part, but progressing and growing is the most challenging. The biggest challenge is making sure knot by TIFFA not only grows into a company that shares my values in the quality and beauty of clothing, but also socially and environmentally as well.

Question: How and where do you derive your inspiration to create your collection of bow ties?

Answer: Inspiration of the bow ties is a combination of music, my own aesthetic, and the market. As a designer and figure skater, I have grown to interpret music as clothing, but it’s important to be cognizant of the menswear market and trends.

Question: How difficult is it creating designs that will draw the attention of a potential buyer?
 

Answer: Creating designs that draws attention is easy compared to creating clothing people will buy. Eye catching colors, prints, and silhouettes captures the eye of an admirer, but especially in menswear it’s important for the customer to trust the quality of the brand in order for them to make the purchase. As a new company, it’s hard to convince customers my bow ties will live up to their expectations that they have of an established brand such as Brooks Brothers or Ralph Lauren, but hopefully as more people buy and experience knot by TIFFA, the reputation will start to build.

Question: Please describe the type of gentleman that wears your bow ties.

Answer: The type of gentleman that wears knot by TIFFA is the gentleman who is known for his style. While he has classical taste, he’s looking for statement pieces that will set him apart from the rest. When he enters a room, the room is attracted to him and not just because of his style, but his infectious personality.

Question: Why should a gentleman wear your bow ties if he is currently not?

Answer: knot by TIFFA is a small and new business, and produces bow ties in small quantity. Not only is the aesthetic a fresh take on the traditional bow tie, but they’re also not mass produced. A gentleman who wants his bow tie to be the only one of its kind at the event he’s attending can be confident he will be in knot by TIFFA.

Question: What style advice can you offer to a gentleman who wants to wear a bow tie for the first time, but is unsure of how it will look?

Answer: Especially with bow ties, fit of the rest of the clothing is incredibly important. A well fitting outfit with a bow tie is almost always going to be successful. If the shirt is a little too large, or the pants a bit baggy, a bow tie look is going to be difficult to pull off.

Question: I am seeing a new catchphrase circulating in men's fashion: the peacock. Can you please explain the term and how, if at all, it coincides with knot by TIFFA?

Answer: Like history, fashion repeats itself, and the “peacock” is a revival from the 1970s. Back in the 70s, the Peacock Revolution began with London’s Carnaby Street offering bright and colorful menswear, notably worn by the Rolling Stones and The Who. The Peacock Revolution inspires knot by TIFFA to offer men pieces that can help them make a statement about their personal style. In addition, at knot by TIFFA music and fashion influence each other, and the Peacock Revolution is just one example of this relationship.

Question: But what if I am a conservative gentleman, will it look too contrived if I wear a quirky bow tie?

Answer: Along with fit, confidence is another important factor in wearing bow ties, or anything really. If you feel awkward in the bow tie, you’re going to look awkward. A bow tie is not for every man, but if the man is confident and has an understanding of fit, he can wear a bow tie with ease.

Question: Does knot by TIFFA have any future plans in expanding into other areas of stylish men's accessories such as pocket squares, neckties, or socks?

Answer: Neckties are just around the corner! knot by TIFFA is planning to release a necktie collection for Spring 2012. As far as other accessories, it will depend on what the market demands.

Question: What is your ultimate mission and vision for the future regarding knot by TIFFA?

Answer: knot by TIFFA'S ultimate mission is to be a company that offers quality clothing in construction and design, and also in production and supply chain. Social responsibility and sustainability are extremely important as knot by TIFFA starts to expand. At the end of the day, it's my mission to make knot by TIFFA a positive influence and experience on the customers, the environment, and the people who a part in making my vision a reality.

UPTOWN Gentleman: Gentlemen's Jewelry

2011-08-29T23:16:00.006-04:00

So, now that we have successfully addressed that small troublesome issue concerning the perception of masculinity, let us now focus our attention to a more mature fashionable subject-jewelry. Don’t bother refreshing the web page, you read that last sentence perfectly fine. Last week we discussed how a gentleman could upgrade his suit presentation by utilizing subtle methods to enhance its appearance. Well, this week could be considered a slight extension of that conversation. Now, I understand that some gentleman cringe at the notion of incorporating “jewelry” into his wardrobe, but a few select pieces can actually strengthen your look. And given the definite emphasis on a strong masculine aesthetic this autumn, it would probably behoove you to add some choice accompaniments to your dresser drawer. A key point to remember when wearing great jewelry: less is definitely more.

For the rest of my thoughts on gentlemen and jewelry, check a brother out at UPTOWN Magazine for the rest of the article.

Style & Substance- The Fine Gauge Turtleneck

2011-08-28T16:51:00.011-04:00

GQ Photography: Mario Testino

So, I have been hearing whispers that the turtleneck sweater was staging a triumphant comeback this upcoming fall & winter season. First, I saw Erik Lensherr sporting one under a wickedly cool brown leather jacket in X Men First Class. And then I flipped open my GQ for that month, only to see Steve Rogers stretched out rocking a pair of tasseled loafers, some serious dark shades, and yes-a fine gauge turtleneck. So, I figure if the world's mightiest super heroes are boarding the turtleneck bandwagon, it probably would not be a bad idea to jump on too. The only problem is it seems like a gentleman requires a super hero physique to wear a fine gauge turtleneck properly. Guess that means a few more minutes on the treadmill for me. However, many probably won't bother. But you have to admit, this isn't your grandfather's turtleneck, hell, not even your uncle's. This new version is tapered, luxurious, and so so cool. Cotton. Merino. Cashmere. Take your pick. Just don't forget the leather jacket, dark shades, and loafers-tassels optional.

Style & Substance- The Cuffed Jean

2011-08-27T08:42:00.006-04:00

Esquire Photography: Kate Orne

Now, this is the type of cuffed denim that The Gentlemen's Standard can strongly endorse. Sorry, I just could not cosign the whole cuffing procedure that unashamedly left a gent's ankle exposed for all the world to see. I don't mind cuffing the pants leg, nevertheless, Huckleberry Finn type floods were never my idea of stylish. So, thankfully this fall, gentlemen can cease purchasing their denim jeans purposely too short. Yes! Ensure that you select a streamlined, not super slim, pair of denim jeans when rolling your cuffs. A boot cut or baggy fit may leave you with excess fabric that will make it difficult to execute a cuff that will hold its shape. Choose your correct length, maybe a shade longer to produce a nice thick, tight rolled cuff, and you are on your way to looking like you mean business. Seriously. Do you see the expression conveyed on this gentleman's face? Does it look like he would roll around town with Pee Wee Herman pants on? No, I don't think so either.

knot by TIFFA

2011-08-26T21:10:00.015-04:00

Sleep When I'm Dead

My humble entry into the wonderful whimsical world of bow ties is still relatively fresh. As an owner of a plentiful amount (I am slightly ashamed to reveal the exact number) of neckties, my bow tie collection hasn't quite broken the number of digits on one hand. Nevertheless, I am steadily building a handsome array of unique bow ties that grant me the opportunity to inject some lively, playful personality to an otherwise serious ensemble. And so it was with delight that I received an e-mail from Tiffany Rogers, creative director for knot by TIFFA. After a few exchanged e-mails, I was sent a cool bow tie for my perusal. I won't go into the details right now because an interview with Ms. Rogers is on the horizon. Until then, Ms. Rogers was kind enough to share some shots from the pre-fall collection. Take a look, visit the site HERE, and keep a watchful for the upcoming interview.

Spent Time

Portraits

Ghost In The Valley

Call Me In The Morning

What Stylish Men Are Made Of

2011-08-25T17:19:00.006-04:00

Church's

Masculinity. Style. Masculinity and style. You have heard about it, even read about it-probably in the latest issue of Esquire. Now, the sartorial interpretation of masculinity has absolutely nothing to do with sexual preferences or naughty proclivities. A gentleman's bedroom is his personal sanctuary, a private domain where its affairs are private business. Well, at least it should be. No, when discussing matters of style and masculinity, we are speaking of certain aesthetics that afford a gentleman a manly stature. It is the robust, napped texture of a heavy gray flannel. It is the sheer thickness of a dark wingtip peppered with an intricate pattern of perforations. It is the durability of a tough tweed sport coat, the richness of a deeply hued cashmere necktie-this is what I think masculine style is. It is the creative utilization of a gentleman's sartorial acumen and the unmistakable confidence to bring it altogether. Nothing weak, feeble, or flimsy about this style. It's strong. It's firm. It's solid. It's the gentleman this autumn.

Allen Edmonds Labor Day Sale

2011-08-24T23:19:00.004-04:00

Yes, it is that time again, Allen Edmonds is offering a savings of 10%-50% off all factory second footwear, as well as savings on neckties, shoe care, and belts. This is a great opportunity to add a few sharp selections to the old shoe collection as autumn begins to slide into town. Trending tremendously this autumn is a gravitation towards manly fashion, so a gentleman may want to give deep thought to purchasing a brogue wingtip, maybe with a thicker sole to complement the tweed and corduroy he will be wearing in early November. Whatever suits you, give Allen Edmonds a call and they will be glad to send you a list of their inventory in your specific size. Maybe you already know what you want. The sale runs August 23rd through September 5th. Happy shopping. Apologies. That number is 1-800-235-2348; Monday-Friday 7:30 am-5:00 pm CST. Good luck.